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writes:I am a single guy and i think i have fallen in love with a married woman who i work with. She has been with us about four months now and she is a very attractive sophisticated lady, and i have total respect that she is married. However i do sence a very strong connection between us, we find ourselves looking at each other for like 5 or 6 seconds then we smile and look away. We have on occasion held hands, and she dosen't pull hers away. She often comments on how handsome i am, and i do sence the flirting is most certainly reciprocated, although i must stress i would never do anything with her while she was married. And i get the impression that she woulden't either, she dosen't seem like that sort of woman. Someone in the office the other day said i want to marry her, meaning me, and she started saying she would leave her husband, and i was saying i would choose a ring over the weekend ect, and she was going along with it all. Ok so this was probally just fooling around, but part of me thinks was it. Maybe she is not happily married, who knows. All i know is i can't stop thinking about this woman. Am i wrong in liking/loving a married woman. Is she wrong reciprocating the flirting?.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (2 July 2007):
 Well, dating a married woman does a damage to the husband, whether you like it or not. In this light, you are not doing the right thing. Also, what if she has children?I know these things happen, but, as a rule, you should never flirt or think of having anything to do with a married woman.But, let's get down to the problem. You fancy the lady. Maybe she does have problems in her marriage and wants out. Maybe she does fancy you. Maybe she wants to leave her husband and be with you. But, you should know for sure. You should ask her what she expects from this relationship.Let's look at the problem from another perspective. Pure, cold calculation. The odds are against you when you want something with a married woman. She may either leave her husband or not; and, if she does leave him, she may end up with you, or not; so that gives you 25% chances. I would rather go with someone who might either love me or not, that is, 50-50.Think hard, man.
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reader, leonard j.Douglas  +, writes (1 July 2007):
WE can fall into sexual lust as a man or woman. But in the male, more so than a female , it's not love but fleshly lust, no matter how you slice it. Both gender can also fall out of common sense to. And should the relation go any further, You both will have fallen out of common sense. And your genitals will be ruling your minds. As they say: "THERE's no fool like an old fool", This no doubt applys to a young fool also.
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