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My question is will I wait for him to call or should I be the one to make the move first?

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Question - (1 July 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 July 2007)
A female Philippines age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Just last night I had a fight with my boyfriend, for I did ask him about something and he did answer me but for my curiosity I asked him again and again, it's about a male friend of his who wanted to borrow money.... I accepted the fact that I did question him a lot, he hated me for that coz for him it seems that I don't have a trust in him... It's about 12.30 midnight that time and he wanted to sleep already for he hates the conversation we had, he put down the phone... on my side I hate him for not talking with me, I haven't texted him till now and he didn't text me nor phone me. My question is will I wait for him to call or should I be the one to make the move first?please help;

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (2 July 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntIf it was his money you really should not have butted in or questioned him. So call and apologise. But if it was your money too then he should have talked to you about lending it out to the friend. Then I'd wait for him to call.

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A male reader, nologo Ukraine +, writes (2 July 2007):

nologo agony auntAs I understood you initiated the fight.

He may be unwilling to talk to you now.

Normally you should wait for him to call you, so please wait.

If however he will not call after a week, then you call him.

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A female reader, sexi South Africa +, writes (2 July 2007):

sexi agony auntHi, the fact that you asked him so many times probably just annoyed him. i think you should send him an sms saying you are sorry and now that you know that he gets irritable quickly if you asked him one thing more than once, try to avoid that, Good luck

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