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writes: Please help me, i'm really confused.A couple of weeks ago, i was very drunk and at my best friends 15th, me and a very close friend got very drunk and ended upstairs and doing everything but sex.I do really like him, because doing that much means a lot to me, and have to like someone very much to do that.Last night he got really drunk and did the same with this other girl! I don't want to talk to him about it because i don't want him to think i like him.And i can't talk to my best friend because she went out with him for ages and although shes completley over him - i find it awkward.So please help me?!
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reader, becka4dale  +, writes (1 July 2007):
 i think you should tell him really how much u like him as if you dont its just going to rip u up inside. he must have feelings for u if he did that with u he probley only went with that other girl coz u didnt tell im how u felt about him ,he probley thot u just wanted sex and not a relationship with him hope this helps
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reader, Beckah +, writes (1 July 2007):
 To be completely honest with you, if i was in your situation i would accept what happened and try to move on. If it has been more than a couple of weeks and nothing has been mentioned then i would settle for it being a one off! I realise you must like him, but i'm sure alcohol had a part in the decisions you made that night, and maybe upon hindsight your attempting to justify what you did? My suggestion would be to talk to him about it honestly and openly. You have a right to know where you stand in all of this. But i appreciate that your perhaps feeling a little awkward so maybe make a hint towards him etc. But if you want my opinion, if he is doing it with other girls, maybe it is the alcohol? Just a thought!Hope i've helped xxx
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