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writes:what would you do if your husband befriend an unmarried woman and he feels that he "must babysit" her because she is far away from her family?what would you do if your husband invite this woman over to stay at your house because she feels "lonely"?please advise. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2007): first he might be up to something but then on the other hand ask him how he would feel if you did the same as what he is doing.
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (29 December 2007):
 Why don't you ask him how he would feel if you befriended an wealthy, attractive young man who needed your undivided attention? You know, he's new in town, doesn't have any friends and really just needs a home cooked meal from time to time.
I think your husband is wrong to ask you to participate in what could be fuel for a much bigger fire.
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reader, elliebellie  +, writes (29 December 2007):
hi hunim sorry to be blunt but this man sounds pathetic.i know you must be lonely but you need to explain that he has a wife and you're not a child. you dont need to be babysat.im sorry but you have to walk away.feel free to mail me if you want to talk about anything else.lolelliexxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2007): What he is doing is wrong . He is not considering your feelings. You are his wife and you should be in the equation. It does look odd what he is doing. Why is he spending too much time to her wants and needs and not yours?. You are right to be suspitious about this and I would recommend that you confront him about it and make him know that you feel uncomfortable and to stop paying too much attention on this woman and more on you.
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