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30-35,
anonymous
writes:there's this guy i like; we met through my friend. we get on really well and talk to each other alot... we throw parties all the time, and he comes along and mostly all of the time me and him kiss and stuff. But whenever i mention another guys name, he goes all moody and stuff saying who's that. He hasnt ever asked me out. But we both told each other we like each other . He is a really nice guy and looks after me . I just dont know how i really feel. Its getting uncomfortable because i cant talk to anyone about it because its in our group of friends. Ive been hurt before, and i dont want to get hurt again so what do you think i should do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2007): hey its me again thanks verry much you guys. well we met up last night and now he wants to spend new year with me . so i'll see how things go from there.
thanks again
all the best in 2008 xx
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reader, Dr. John  +, writes (30 December 2007):
 I think you should just take it slow and let your relationship happen naturally. The minute you try to rush things it can get caotic.
If you let things happen as they will you can better tell if you are compatible with him and you will either grow together or grow apart. Doc
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reader, dc.ryan +, writes (30 December 2007):
 Hello,
In this kind of situation, we can't decide for you - as we're no judge of personality if we've never met him (and it would be unfair to do so even if we did!). Getting hurt in previous relationships can always affect your decision between a entering or leaving a new relationship (and unfortunately its how we learn to avoid certain types of people) - from the sounds of things, you are very comfortable with each other.
You've both admitted you like each other, and would be potentially interested in a relationship - which is good. He does sound very protective over you, which is a further sign he wants you to his (in terms of a relationship).
I think its about time one of you made the first move towards a new relationship, he could be holding back because he isn't quite sure how you feel or hes experiencing the exact same feelings as you! Another thing you could do, is let the friendship grow naturally into a relationship - spend as much time as possible with each other, go shopping / out for lunch / cinema etc - and let that connection build further until it feels right.
Perhaps he is scared of being turned down (thats possibly one of our biggest fears) and end of the day, whats wrong with a girl asking a guy out?
Ryan
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