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writes:i've got another big problem. im really really shy. i dont know why.i dont like eating in front of people, especially boys. when i go to meet my boyfriend, i will be like 'ok this time im going to talk' but as soon as he says 'you ok?' i go weak at the knees.? i just nodd my hed or shake my head. when we are on the fone, i talk moree. but i dont know whats wrong with me. when i waswith my ex i was shy in the begginning, but two weeks later i started talking more. ive been with my boyfriend for 2 months and i havent talked to him face 2 face. (with my mouth). is it inhereted, or thats just the way i am? any tips? please. btw im 14 and mature.
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reader, MissKate  +, writes (29 December 2007):
 I understand where your coming from.Your probably just still a tiny bit nervous and scared of showing yourself up or embarrassing yourself.But there's no need to worry!I'm sure your boyfriend will understand anyway but you just need to relax.Instead of thinking him as your boyfriend, just imagine him as a mate.Just be yourself! You haven't got anything to lose. If he's a good boyfriend, he will understand everything.Good Luck! xKate
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reader, scythe  +, writes (29 December 2007):
 hey,
hmm well sometimes all you can do is try your best. when i was younger i was really shy (im 18 now) and i hated not being able to chat to guys i liked. i still hate eating infront of people.
it looks like you have a really patient and understanding boyfriend. maybe it would help if you discussed your shyness on the phone or on msn with him. this was you both can work to finding a way to make you more comfortable.
dont give up. it will get better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2007): 14 is not mature in my opinion - you've got a lot of growing up to do.
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