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She's very indecisive about us and whenever I try to talk to her about it, she just says "I don't know", what should I do?

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Question - (29 December 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 December 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Right, so i met a girl back in october, and we both liked each other at the time, but she had a boyfriend, so we did nothing about it.

That relationship then broke up, and me and her just got really close, and things began to fall into place. We just got closer and closer until we were boyfriend and girlfriend.

But now she's saying that she doesn't know whether or not she loves me, or if she's ready for our relationship. I really like her and she's the first girl to ever make me feel like I have done in the last few weeks.

What should I do? She's very indecisive and whenever I try to talk to her about it, she just says "I don't know".

Thanks

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2007):

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i have told her how i feel about her, we'll see what happens now.... thanks a lot for your comments so far guys. =)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2007):

hey friend that problem u r saying is very common to mine also because i had too once had a introvert love relationship with a girl who doesn't clearly expressed that whether she really love me or not.when we go to movie or in romatc mood she act as if she is my girl friend and at other time she even don't care me sayng her hello. later some body misleaded her sying wrong stuuf about me and she said she dont love me and she was comfused at that time

so what i want ot suugeset u is that be clear that wherterher she loves u or not in open and clear sense.otherwise at the climax u wiill have to regret it mulch and may it will take time more than mine to hearl the hurt .so first make clear to her???????

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A male reader, uh oh United Kingdom +, writes (29 December 2007):

trust me man, i kno EXACTLY how u feel about this girl especially if shes the first one - im in that same position and i kno how much it means to you to make it work.

YOu gotta think positive, at least shes considering going out with you

all she needs is time. love is a big thing at at such a young age -16-17, you have to think about the future and everything that will follow. the question is , are YOU reli ready? and if you are, u know u wont be the person to make the first move if you let her kno that

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