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My friends keep telling me to get over him but I just can't.

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Question - (29 December 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 December 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *ezzer888 writes:

I had fancied this guy for about a year before he asked me out. We live a long way apart and met on two other previous holidays. We had talked by text and msn. And we met the weekend before he asked me out.

When he asked me out i was so happy. I kind of guessed the way he felt about me during the weekend. We only met once while we were going out for 2 weeks on holiday. It was perfect. But it was 5 months into our realationship and maybe too late. We broke up in November after 9 months of going out. He broke it off but I knew it was coming and thinking of doing it myself even though I didnt want to. He hadn't talked to me for ages and I tried. He dumped me by email saying he was really busy and didn't feel he was ready for a long term realationship.

But now 1 month on I cant stop thinking about him and he still wont talk to me. I think I stil love him. My friends keep telling me to get over him but I can't. What should I do?

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A female reader, cheryluk24 United Kingdom +, writes (30 December 2007):

cheryluk24 agony aunti understand what ur saying my bf and i broke up 2 months ago after being together for 10 months and everyone told me to get over him but its not that easy we didnt talk for aout 3 weeks he kept avoiding my calls and txts but i keft him alone for awhile and then sent him a txt telling him how i felt and what my feelings were towards him and he txt me bck saying he wants us to be friends again and maybe get bck together in a few months so i would advise u to go with ur heart and txt him u have nothing to loose if u love him go for it take care and goodluck let me know how it goes x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2007):

if you still like him, then try getting in contact with him anyway and telling him how you miss him and how much you still love him

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A female reader, elliebellie United Kingdom +, writes (30 December 2007):

hi hun.

first of all i hope you start feeling better. *virtual hug*

im afraid you're going to have to listen to your friend. you're goign to have to get over him. have one night where you just sit and cry over him. but then after that go out and show him what he's missing. have girlie nights in and just let go.

hope this helps

feel free to mail me about anything

lol

ellie

xxx

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