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How do I keep her in mind but not irritate her independance??

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Question - (29 December 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 December 2007)
A male United States, *old4this writes:

My girl broke up with me after thanksgiving. She admitted she just not sure what she wants. She does need to get her life straight no doubt. But i'm in love with her. She admits she loves me too. She is just screwed up and I know it.

I knew it when we got together. But i've decided it doesn't matter. I want her back. I know if I don't screw it up we will be together again. But I still want to talk to her all day. Still want to here her voice. I know what she's doing. She's getting her independance back and enjoying it.

This is gonna go one of two ways. I give her space and let her make the move back to me on her own, or I give her too much space and she thinks I don't love her anymore. So how do I keep in her mind but not irritate her independance? I am prepared to lose her for good, I'm just hoping I don't have too.

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A female reader, Whisp United Kingdom +, writes (30 December 2007):

Whisp agony auntIf she knows how you feel about her, then there's nothing else you can do. if she wants to come back to you then she will, but if she knows that you love her but still doesn't come back then maybe she just wants to be independant more.

good luck

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