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female
age
10-12,
girlneedinghelp
writes:hi, i'm in a difficult situation again;My ex bf said he was going to dump his current gf , because he has no feeling for her and he loves me loads and all of that stuff, and i love him so much, but i don't know what'll happen, cus if he dumps me again for another girl ( again) then i'll be in a strop.I'll be in tears and my life literally falls apart. So my ex sayd he still loves me but i find that really hard to belive otherwise why would he have dumped me for another girl who he doesn't want anymore? Because he's like the controler of the group but i think he controls abit to much and he can get whatever he wants, he didn't even tell me ( wen we were still going out ) about the other girls he said he loved, i found out by my friend, so what should i do? I don't want him to get what he wants just so he'll learn that he cant, but i want to be with him again so i'm kinda mixed up , because i want to express how much i love him but i cant say it i kinda restrict myself from saying and thing apart from "i lv u 2 " i seriously love him thoughhelp :(girlneedinghelp
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reader, baby duck  + ♥, writes (30 December 2007):
 Oh, honey ... you know the answer ... it is in your post.
He is using you and you are letting him. In your mind, all would be perfect, 'if only' he would commit.
Well, all would be perfect in the world if we could all control our own behaviors and stop trying to control everyone else's ...
which is exactly what that guy is doing, come to think of it ...
You, love, need to tell him to hit the road ... you deserve someone that will treat you with love and respect and do not need anyone that treats you with less.
Yeah, you'll hurt. Far better to hurt because you are meeting your needs than hurt because you are allowing someone to hurt you.
Best wishes.
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