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writes:Hi, I am 29 male living in Cairo, Egypt. I am new to this place. I want to go for circumcision surgery since it is paining me when i penetrate into my wife. It is not heavy but whenever i do, its paining. Its making both of us uncomfortable. Now my wife is pregnant and she is suggesting to go for circumcision. Is the pain normal? If i want to go for this surgery, to whom i should meet? I mean sexologist? How long does it take to become normal after undergoing this surgery. Please help. Any advice will be really appreciated. Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2010): Yes, I suggest you get circumcized. It will make sex more enjoyable and pain free as you will no longer have phimosis. You should contact a urologist to do the procedure. You can have sex again after 6 weeks, but won't be completely healed for six months. It takes this long for the sensitization of the exposed glans and frenulum to subside.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for your kind response. I really appreciate.
@Danielepew - thank you for the advice. I am not an Egyptian by the way, not Muslim too. I came here to work recently. I have pain since i start having sex with my wife but now we are thinking to go for the surgery.
@Madalo1, @chigirl - thank you both of you. I will meet general physician soon to take his suggestion.
I think i dont have a problem of phimosis because my foreskin is moving somewhat freely when i masturbate. Sometimes its bleeding when i start giving strokes.
Thank you all once again.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (18 October 2010):
 You should talk to a doctor who specializes in general medicine and ask them to refer you to someone? Or look in the phone-listings and call around to figure out who is performing these operations near you?
A circumcision might be the answer. But you need to talk to a doctor first. Then perhaps a gynecologist, but in my country you only get to talk to a gynecologist if you have been reffered to one by your doctor.
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reader, Madalo 1  +, writes (18 October 2010):
Good idea to get circumcised. Go to a hospital/clinic. Takes about 6weeks to heal. Circumcision reduces risk of infections, and it does reduce pain during sex, and you'll be more free to explore different kinds of positions without pain.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2010): Its not very painful during the process. Take about 2 weeks to heal. Its a good decision 2 get circumcised. It makes sex more enjoyable.dont worry about the pain. Its minimal. Look for a general practitioner to perform circumscion for you.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (18 October 2010):
 Your post says you live in Egypt, a muslim country, where men are routinely circumcised. So this gives me the hunch that your post isn't real.
But, it could be a real post. Therefore, I must say that some men have foreskins that don't retract all the way, or "phimosis". In that case, a doctor can make a cut, not necessarily a circumcision, and that fixes the problem.
It seems kind of odd to me, however, that a 29-year old man wouldn't know whether his foreskin goes all the way or not.
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