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writes:This girl at school has a boyfriend but she still flirts with me?Well there is this girl at school that i ignored for the first month of school, because everyday she would talk about her boyfriend. she would say i love my boyfriend so much bla bla bla, it actually is very annoying how these girl goes on about her boyfriend. She even talks about him when girls and teachers talk to her and they feal akward. Well one day i started talking to her and i guess i like her now. She is alright actually at the beginning of the conversation she didnt even mention her bf, it awas intersting. Well after a while i got bored of talking ot her because she was boring in my mind but i still liked her. After a while she started mentioning her bf but i shrugged it off making it seem that i was not interested. while in class she is always staring at me and i go as far as to give her the stink eye but she still looks back. the next day at school while she was with her friend she mentioned how annoyed she was that i didn't talk to her in class, she also invites me to talk to her after class but i refuse and say i got homeowork. well anyways when i go to school and i have some type of issue she always says to me whats wrong, but i dont reply usually. Well anyways afterwards i started to talk to her again because i thought that maybe she might like me and we started talking and she mentions her bf, its weirds because i dont seem intersted in her at all and she goes on about him its wierd i want some advice on these i dont know what too do she might have an obsesion with her bf. Also as well i have also witnesses body language she smiles at me and crosses her legs to me and leans to me and always wants to be parntered up with me in class. i'am confused i like her but i dont know why she keeps mentioning her bf, by the way he is like 7 years older than her.Sorry for the long story but i need some help.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (17 October 2010):
 I am curious here. I wonder what it is that you find upsetting: her talking about her allegedly great, wonderful boyfriend all the time, or the fact that she says so yet gives you too much attention. I suppose you are concerned about the discrepancy between her saying that she loves her man too much, and her dropping hints that there might be a little prize awaiting for you.
This is where you act responsibly towards yourself and don't get involved with her.
If she really likes her boyfriend, but is flirting with you, then most likely she would dump you the minute you showed any serious interest. She might even say you misinterpreted her, et cetera. And, sorry, but yes, you might be misinterpreting her. So, don't get involved.
If she isn't that happy with her boyfriend, however great he is (and perhaps he isn't great, you know?), then she needs to do her own thinking and either dumping the guy or staying with him. You see, she seems to be giving you too much attention, but she's with the other guy. And you need a clear deal, something like "I'm free and interested".
You suggest that you try to brush her off, yet she won't take the hint. You know, man, never ever, in your life or in the hereafter, drop hints. Be direct and clear. People will love you for it even if they hate you for it.
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reader, Aunt Leona  +, writes (17 October 2010):
Firstly I would try to find out if she actually has a boyfriend as it sounds as though she may not as it trying to keep you interested by making you jealous. Perhaps you could find out from friends or hang out where she does to see if her boyfriend is around.
If you find out she does have a boyfriend, then run a mile. You dont want to be with a girl whos going to do the same to you as she is to him.
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reader, Imnot +, writes (17 October 2010):
 One this girl sounds odd for never shuting up about her boyfriend...I would just ignore her and let her know in a good way that you find her over talking of her boyfriend werid and u don't have intrest in her...you don't sound like you like her seems more like a fade thing maybe her looks caught your eye and nothing more and is sure to fade away soon enough..
Good-luck hope everything works out in your favor
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2010): No doubt about it she really likes her boyfriend but i think she might have a little crush on you!
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