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writes:Ok I am interested in some advice. I am divorced and I am dating my high school boyfriend, who found me on facebook. Here is the issue. He is seperated from his wife and they are close to finalizing their divorce. He also lives very far away from me...coast to coast. He has visited me often because his job brings him to my area and I have also visited him once. We have been dating for a few months but really havent talked much about the future. I have a great time with him and could really see myself in a long term relationship with him. But after a long and ugly divorce I dont want to get hurt...so am I wasting my time?Thanks in advance
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (20 October 2010):
 We can't know if your relationship with this guy will go well. I hope it does.
On the other hand, it definitely won't if you give up at this time.
I would ask you to reflect a bit about that "wasting your time" thing. If you can see yourself in a relationship with him, was it really a waste? I bet you had a good moment or two.
On the other hand, look at this from the man's perspective. He seems to be "investing" on you, too. Did he waste his time? If you don't feel like taking your chance this time, tell him.
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