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30-35,
anonymous
writes:After dating my bf for over two years it has all become static and will be now for 3 years to come because of his job. He won't live with me until then and nothing else can progress. I don't want a static relationship. What do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Justicepleaze  +, writes (8 February 2011):
Do you two talk of marriage? If you dont want a static relationship than move on. Or, take a break from him and see what else is out there. YOU also matter in this relationship.
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reader, SweetSmoochy +, writes (8 February 2011):
 It sounds like you already know what you want to do. Maybe it's time for a new relationship.
You guys have been together for a long time, and that means something, but you've got to make sure you're doing what's best for you, especially as young as you are. End the relationship on a good, respectful note, before you both get frustrated and angry, and stay friends.
Who knows? Maybe in the future when both of you have more stable lives you'll get back together and it'll work out better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2011): I know what your talking about, I'm surprised your putting up with this, I mean, he is choosing you over your job which is just, good in a way which means he is successful but I think you should tell him how you feel, because the longer you put it off the more it's going to hurt, and eventually if you guys don't communicate like you used to your relationship can fall apart as fast as it came together.
3 always your friend
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