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Archived questions from: 8 June, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How do I move on again from a second heartbreak from the same man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

8 June 2010 (F) - I'm a 34 year old woman in love with a married man. We have a very intense past relationship from about 17 years ago. I found him on FB and initiated conversation at first trying to be platonic. 2 months later we were texting/calling and seeing ...

Laughing before/during/and after orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

8 June 2010 (M) - I am a 27-year-old and married guy. Whenever I have sex with my wife and when I am about to cum, I start laughing! I can't control it! It continues during and after (for like 3 minutes) I cum. I love the feeling but I dont like the way my wife ...

My husband backhands our daughter. Should I leave him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

8 June 2010 (F) - My husband and I have 3 children together. He is great with our 12 year old daughter and our 5 year old son but is very mean to our 15 year old daughter. Let me also say that our 15 yr old has a big time attitude as well. They clash big time with ...

Why does my girlfriend just want to be room mates now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

8 June 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years; working on 5. We dated and spend time together (and still do), slip sweet (and sometimes spicy) notes into each others wallet/purse to be found at the most inappropriate times (lol), and even ...

Did I cause a problem and could my friend be mad at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

8 June 2010 (F) - My friend's boyfriend had put interested in women on his facebook page and I thought that he meant like he wanted to meet other women- he had prior to that interested in men and women and said he was single on there- I misunderstood and told my ...

Be a single mum to 3 boys or lose my daughter?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

8 June 2010 (F) - Hi there. I'm hoping someone here can help me. I am in a relationship for the past 12 years. The early years were turbulent but we stayed together and now have 3 young boys. They are great. However ... I also have a daughter in her 20s from my ...

She's pressuring me to move in together

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

8 June 2010 (M) - Hello All, I have been dating this girl for nearly 6 months. Since the very first week or so, we have spent our weekends together. Few months back, we discussed the idea of living together, to which I made clear that I was not ready, however, ...

We had a fight, but he doesn't seem to be making any effort to make up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

8 June 2010 (F) - Over the weekend my boyfriend and I bumped heads pretty hard and things are not so good. My boyfriend is cleary disturbed and bothered by what happened. We have been together for almost 2 years and have plenty of great times together. I feel he ...

I want children but he doesn't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

8 June 2010 (F) - Hello I have had a lot of issues in my womb and fallopian tubes. I suffer from endometriosis, and have had one of my ovaries and fallopian tubes removed due to a large cyst. Also I underwent another operation to remove a cyst on the remaining ovary. ...

I feel I've lost control and he wants to make me feel badly about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

8 June 2010 (F) - hi can anyone help i have been in a relationship for 7 weeks, we have had a few arguments, name calling etc, and we both decided we were being defensive and agreed to get on and be happy together. then last week it was my birthday he did not even ...

B/f wants me to terminate my pregnancy but continue to help him. I'm very confused!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

8 June 2010 (F) - Im 42 in a comitted relationship and just discovered im pregnant, shocking to say the least after having spent 15 out of 20 years trying for a second child i had long since given up hope and resigned myself to being infertile. Problem i have...

She doesn't want children but I want to have them one day, am I just wasting my time with her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

8 June 2010 (M) - so i'm with the girl of my dreams, and a brief conversation we had one day is kind of bugging me. Were both in our early 20's, so this isnt anything to necessarily worry about any time soon: she is crazy about one of her sisters children- pictures...

My girlfriend has stopped talking to me, her best friends, she has deleted her Facebook.....Is there anything we can do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

8 June 2010 (M) - My (currently long distance) girlfriend started to be very distant with me. At first I put it down to stress from university. I spent her birthday weekend with her, and she seemed to have a good time. However, there was still a lack of emotion or ...

Is he a user and abuser? Or a heartbreaker?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

8 June 2010 (F) - I've known this guy for 5 years now. 4 years as a friend and 1 as well an online realationship. Things started in 2009 march, i'd just gotten over someoen who never liked me and well this online guy was alaways there to help, always caring. we ...

He looked at porn right after we made love - whats wrong with me?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

8 June 2010 (F) - I recently posted on here as i'd accidently discovered my fiance had been looking at porn on the computer..only one site had come up so i tried not to let it bother me as you all said and put it down to a one off. But earlier curiosity got the ...

Not desperate for sex just want to know what the hell I'm doing wrong - am I missing something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

8 June 2010 (F) - Hi, I've been in a relationship now for almost two and a half years. Its a long distance relationship in that my boyfriend lives four hours away and so we meet on weekends or at worst every second weekend. Okay my problem is that there is no sex i...

Should I go to the BBQ knowing his ex will be there?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

8 June 2010 (?) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and I have never really completely trusted him. I usually do whatever he wants to do, he's extremely outgoing and has lots of friends and admirers. I am a little more reserved and with fewer ...

He gives his ex all of his money and forgets about me and his son!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

8 June 2010 (F) - hey, i need some advice please, me and my fiance have been together for 2yrs, we have a 5month old son. the problem is he doesnt provide much for him. ok, he buys milk and food for our son but all the materialistic things (cot, bouncer, feeding...

I don't want to end the relationship but I want him to stop being mean and texting other girls!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

8 June 2010 (F) - hey there i have quite the problem and i have no clue what to do about it...my bf well hes a jack ass but he can be so sweet too... two weekends ago i found out the three times during our relationship he texted a girl he had sex with before dating ...

My boyfriend says if we have a baby he will settle down with me and stop hanging out on the streets, what should I do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

8 June 2010 (F) - hi i'm 17 and my boyfriend is 18 and wants to have a baby but he is alway out in the streets he say's if we have a baby he will settle down with me. What should i do?...

Am I doing the right thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

8 June 2010 (F) - Please help. I've been in a relationship with the same guy now for several years, but it never seems to be leading anywhere. I find it difficult to discuss our future with him. He's so laid back about it.. like we have unlimited time.. but I'm...

She gets mad because I don't agree with her

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

8 June 2010 (F) - I don't know what to do. My gf gets mad whenever I don't agree with her. She looks at it in a disloyal way although I'm just trying to say my opinion. I told her, if she wants to be with someone who always agrees on her opinion, she should just get ...

Why is it that when men don't get their way they always go off in a mood?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

8 June 2010 (F) - Is it just me or when men don't get something to do with sex they go in a mood and blame their partner. My boyfriends likes bum fun, we tried it but it really hurt me. but he doesn't seem too realise that cause of the pain i dont want it. and he ...

I feel alone but I don't want to leave! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

8 June 2010 (F) - Hello, could someone please give me some advice here. I have been with my partner now for 2 years. I moved area and job and all my friends to be with him. he has 2 children from a previous marriage. He sees them a lot but they are not easy kids. ...

A crisis of faith

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

8 June 2010 (M) - Hi there. I'm on my gap year and during it i met the most amazing girl and we are coming up to our one year anniversary, and for our anniversary (in a month and a half) i named a star in the sky for her. I sent it to her early because im going...

I'm sick of her walking out on me when I am just trying to be a good father to our 2 young kids!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

8 June 2010 (M) - hello cupid ughh got a big problem messing with my life right now. ok so im 21 and my gf is also 21 and we have 2 kids togther one age two and one age 1 and me and her cant get along anymore at all because we have no freedom me and her spilt about ...

She compares me to her ex......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

8 June 2010 (F) - Hello there My current gf tells me all the time that I don't compare to her ex in any way and that she regrets having left her for me. It makes my self-esteem very low and she hurts my feelings with it. When I tell her she replies "well, it's the ...

Why do I get crushes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

8 June 2010 (F) - why does this always happen? I have noticed that whenever I get to the comfy stage in a relationship (i.e. after a few months when I know that they love me) I start getting crushes on other people. Well, not exactly crushes, more like I wil...

After all this talking on the phone, texting and talking online I still cant tell if he likes me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

8 June 2010 (F) - one day me and my friend and her boyfriend and his friend went out after days i been told he fancys me which i did too but he asked my friends boyfriend for my msn so we can get to know each other, i didnt mind so he add me but its been 2 months now ...

I am scared my boyfriend is going to rape me? Or become abusive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

8 June 2010 (F) - [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] I am 13. So is my boyfriend.. I am about 8 months older. And he asked me to make out with him. And I said no, I personally think its gross. And he answered, "Why?" To me tongues are NASTY. "I will make you try ...

It must mean something if he replies, right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

8 June 2010 (F) - ok so around 3 years ago i met a guy fell madly in love he was my first love, he had only been single 6 months previous to getting with me he was with his ex for 4 years. he stayed friends with her throughout our relationship and she started ...

Shocked he reacted this way! What happened?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

8 June 2010 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for almost 6 months. We've gotten close enough to talk about moving in together. Last Friday, I was at his house, we were sitting outside talking. Having a few drinks. He starting asking questions about my past. ...

How do I introduce a vibrator into sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

8 June 2010 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 months and we are madly in love, We have amazing passionate sex which feels great! BUT he just doesnt really care about me orgasming, he does want to try though. but hes impatient and cant keep a hard on and use h...

I haven't seen my girlfriend for 3 months! What's the deal???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5081 days ago

8 June 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid, Here’s the deal, me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 beautiful years, Both in our early 20s, Both work (although she commits more hours than me), but for the last 3 months I haven’t even seen her and its not just the vis...

He's away on holiday and I feel he doesn't care for me any more... help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

8 June 2010 (F) - I posted previously about my bf going away on his lads holiday and that I wasn't sure if I could trust him. Its all getting on top of me now. He kissed a girl on holiday a few years ago while we were together which always springs to mind whenever...

What do you do when your family doesn't approve your relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

8 June 2010 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for over a year long-distance (I'm American, he's English). We have yet to meet, but will be shortly (I'm flying there). We have literally everything in common; I have seriously never met anyone like him before. He's the ...