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36-40,
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writes:Hello I have had a lot of issues in my womb and fallopian tubes. I suffer from endometriosis, and have had one of my ovaries and fallopian tubes removed due to a large cyst. Also I underwent another operation to remove a cyst on the remaining ovary. Everything is okay for now, but there is a chance that the lump could come back. The problem is my partner does not want children and I do but I am not sure if I can conceive after all the problems. I dont want to leave my partner as I am happy with him only for me to end up childless in the future. I might as well stay with him. But there is also the chance that I might be able to conceive. I am really not sure what to do? Please help.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (8 June 2010):
 Sometimes the urge to want children can become stronger than the urge to stay with the man. You would have to decide before you continue. I'ts not fair to stay with a man if you want children so badly and he doesn't because he won't give the full support to an unwanted child. A friend of mine got pregnant with her second child without letting her husband know she was planning to do so, he left whilst she was 4 months pregnant. He said it upset the long term plans he had. So my advice to you is if you really really can't live without having children, either get him to change his mind, or change your man. Hope this helps.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (8 June 2010):
If you want kids and he doesn't, then it's best to move on now. You will really regret it if you do stay and don't take your chance with another man who will want to have kids with you.
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