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How do I move on again from a second heartbreak from the same man?

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Question - (8 June 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 June 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I'm a 34 year old woman in love with a married man. We have a very intense past relationship from about 17 years ago. I found him on FB and initiated conversation at first trying to be platonic. 2 months later we were texting/calling and seeing each other 2-3 times a week. Because of our past history I still hold strong feelings for him which at times made controlling my emotions very difficult. Because of this I believe that is why he has stopped texting/calling and wanting to hang out.

How do I move on again from a second heartbreak from the same man?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2010):

As someone whose husband conducted an emotional affair I say 'Sorry love you've got what you deserve'. See how you 'enjoy' the pain and heartache.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2010):

he is married and he knows that he is cheating on his wife and family so he stopped. plse respect this decision. yes you are hurting but remember you are he intruder in this marriage. so perhaps now that you are wiser, try not to hook up with married friends. in this way it will save you heaps of tears and pain.

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A female reader, makenzie Ireland +, writes (9 June 2010):

your in love with a married man, who has broken your heart twice.

And now he is nolonger keeping i touch with you because of your feelings for him.

I think the best thing for you is to have no contact with him at all, to allow yourself to get over him and realise that you dont need somone else's husband, when you could have your own.

I know that it wont be easy for you to move on, but it is for the best. What you need to do is find yourself a single man, somone who only whants you and doesnt want an afair.

So what i would sujest is have some fun, go out with your friends, treat yourself, keep your mind off him, stop dwelling on the past and live for the future.

Yeah its going to hurt at the moment, but in a month or two your going to look back and think why was i so love struck over him, when i can do so much better.

Hope this helps, good luck :)

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