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writes:Okay, okay. Seems that my 4 month rocky relationship ended. Although, how is a lil surprising, and schocking to me. First of all, I am not a fan of texting, and that was our means of communicating. facebook, is also a detriment to the relationship. I think she would post things to try and get a response from me. I couldn't give responses, because I dont like using FB for public knowldege in our relationship. So this is how it went down. Last week I text her about getting together. She was like Sat., and I kinda said I may have plans on Sat., and that Friday would be better. That was on a Wednesday, and until Friday night, she finally got back to me. I didnt have time to respond, until later the evening. One of the last text she sent me was about plans for Sat. I replied, that I still did not know about them, and she would be the first to know. Well, She replied that she made other plans. Well then, thanks to FB, I find out she is no longer in the relationship with me. Later that morning she exted me a "sorry, becuse". I never text her until Sunday, and we exchnged responses back and forth. She still throws out reasonw why she has no longer interests. I just don't see how, I mean we talk about me moving a lil closer ( i live about 1/2 hour away). So things just dont add up. This past Thursday, I text to her "hey, Morn'n. Give an hour she replied hi. SO then I laid it on the line, texted her back, something a few of my friends said, she has to respond to that one. If not move on, cuz she is crazy.So I ask, why did she dump me on FB, and texting?Why does she respond back to me, when I text?Look, yes I may need to move on. BUT I still feel there is unfinished business here. I went out with someone, and still think about my girlfriend. Don't you think if she was DONE with me, she would not replied? Although still waitng from my last reply, of which I know would be some time. Love her, and not going to let it end this way, from a text or FB.I would like to know, if it at all possible she has no feelings toward me? I still think there is unfinished business between us.
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reader, SillyB +, writes (18 July 2010):
 It sounds like you are not very good at communicating...you text instead of call her. You don't let her know in advance your plans, you don't INCLUDE her in your saturday plans...
sounds like you were not too interested in her. I wouldn't continue with you either.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (18 July 2010):
 I think she already told you reasons why she's not interested, besides the distance. What you are having here is a facebook relationship and not a real one. She's still a stranger to you and yet you are willing to move closer to her. In the last paragraph did you mention her as your girlfriend, or do you have a girlfriend before her? Also, are you not allowed to call her number, or talk to her in person?
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