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36-40,
*abrefan117
writes:My girlfriend and I have hit the "three month" mark. She said when we first started dating that she always had issues at this point and rarely had a relationship make it past three months.However, she said she's falling for me and she can see and wants me in her future. She has consistently told me how amazing I am and how much better I am compared to the other guys she's dated.Now, she's starting to have those issues. She says her heart wants to stay, but mind is telling her to run. She knows that if she makes it past this point, then everything will fine - which is what she's trying to do. She keeps reassuring me she is trying to make it past this point, as tough as it might be for her. Today she sent me a text message saying we're still together, so I don't have to worry about that, but she needs to figure herself out.I really care and am falling for her. She is a great and amazing girl, and I've haven't felt this way about someone in a long time.How can I make sure the relationship makes it past this mark?
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reader, Emma'08  +, writes (20 August 2008):
 Make sure you never miss a time to compliment her or take her out spontaniously for a romantic meal or for a drive to a deserted field and have a deep conversation. charm her more and more be spontanious and romantic and reasure her everything is ok and that you love her anytime you can. find the key to her heart!
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reader, I am Tetreault +, writes (20 August 2008):
your girlfriend is shallow. If she is fixated on a timeline rather than enjoying a relationship with someone who cares for her, then you are honestly better off without her. Let someone else be her egg-timer.
Bottom line, shes got issues, probably stemming from promiscuity, and three months is about all she can deal with until youve lost your luster. She sounds very immature.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2008): I think she has commitment issues but if your love is strong enough it will make it through.
Best wishes =]
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