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Archived questions from: 22 April, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Our friendship is going downhill, fast! How can I not look like a fool?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 137 days ago

22 April 2008 (M) - me and this girl at work flirt a lot (well we did). we used 2 go out and play pool and text each other a lot. but people at work stuck there noses in an would say things like "whens the wedding" and similar things.in reply i said i don't c ...

I am in an open, long-distance relationship which I've screwed up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - I've been seeing this guy and we've been long distance since September. We've decided to remain in an open relationship until I go back to his city at the end of May. I broke up with him about 6 weeks ago because it was too hard to handle but that ...

Are other women built differently in order to feel prepared more easily during anal sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - For Guys and Gals My boyfriend and I have sex daily. Dress up, role play,oral, sex in different locations, it goes on and on...The problem is he brings up anal sex a lot which we have done, but he says he loses patience with me because it takes...

I would love to diversify our sex making but I fear she will think I am perverted to suggest more than the traditional style?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

22 April 2008 (M) - Am facing a serious problem in my sex life coz of monotony. My girlfriend and i have been enjoying our quality time but its become very boring of recent especially for me. She doesnt seem to have any interest in trying any other sex style apart from ...

My boyfriend fingered some other girl and I feel like I'm losing him...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - how can i stop this horrible feelings of guilt? my boyfriend fingered some other girl whilst going out with me. i forgave him and and to be honest i couldnt care i just shook it off. but deep down i really care about this boy even though i d...

My pregnant girlfriend left after an argument, part of me wants her back but I also want to go back to the time I enjoyed celibacy...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

22 April 2008 (M) - Hello, I have been going out with my girlfriend for 10 months, The relationship moved quite quickly and she moved in after 3 months and was pregnant by 4 months. Everything was fine until just before xmas, she was 1 months gone and I started to ques...

It hurt me that he announced the trip with such nonchalance, knowing I cannot participate; it made me want to break up, am I wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - i am in a difficult situation. my boyfriend and i have been together for about 4 years, but our relationship has been a secret from my parents. this is due to the fact that i was in a car accident 4 years ago. my parents were angry at me when...

I am bi and constantly struggle with my sexuality. If I am with a guy then I long for a girl and vice versa!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - I am bi and constantly struggle with my sexuality. If I am with a guy then I long for a girl and vice versa. Only a small part of it is sexual but most part of it is emotional and psychological - like holding hands with a woman feels so different ...

Husband refused my divorce petition, should I let my solicitor deal with his unresponsiveness even though it will take longer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - i havent seen my emotionally and sometimes physical violent husband for 5 months now. i have tried to serve a divorce petition on him at his parents address but it was sent back saying not at this address. believe me if it had been any other kind of ...

My boyfriend is always asking me if I want to try anal sex or oral, but I dislike the idea of both techniques!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - hi, my boyfriend is always asking me if i want to have anal sex or oral sex. i really dont know what to do because ive tried oral sex before but i was almost forced into it, but ive never tried anal sex yet ive heard a lot of rumors that it h...

Do I not get her the lingerie this year, or what size do I get her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

22 April 2008 (M) - I will have been dating my gf for 4 years at the end of the month. Every year for our "anniversary" I buy her lingerie and jewelery. Buying her lingerie this year has been stressfull because of her weight. My gf is 5 ft 3 inches tall and weighed ...

I am scared that he is going to be grossed out by seeing me in swimsuit!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - Okay, you all may think I am silly.....but, this is seriously causing me major distress. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months. We have been sexually active. However, I haven't walked around naked a lot. I have bad cellulite and saddle bags ...

I cant talk to him because he gets really angry and doesn't want to talk about our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - why is my boyfriend always moody with me?? we have been together 6 years. he does work long hours and doest get alot of sleep..when he is off work , he likes to go to the casino or play poker, he does smoke marawana . a week ago, he did start cry...

Did he just use me for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 137 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - I met this guy 6 months ago unfortunately l let my guard down and had sex with him. We have been comunicating, I have been out of a relationship for close to 3 years. I like him but am worried he is just after sex how can i tell what his up to?...

My boyfriends mate keeps groping me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a while now but the problem is his mates they try chatting me up all the time. They also try touching me and call me a slag because i have had sex with my new boyfriend How do i make them stop being like ...

Should I wait and see if he can have the agressiveness yet sweet self combined or am I asking for too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - Well you see I met this marvelous guy he's sweet very hot and honest.Well ppl (family friends etc) used to tell that he was very agressive like he was pretty much an asshole.Anyway he would always take me out and be so romantic with me.But then I ...

I have been dating a man for over 3 years and have lower self esteem than ever!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - I have been dating a man for over 3 years and have lower self esteem then ever! When I met him, he was "separated" and I was very overweight. Needless to say, yes low self esteem and but he constantly told me how perfect his wifes body was and how ...

Is it me with the problem, or is it her not taking our relationship seriously?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

22 April 2008 (M) - I'll try to cut this down to as small as i can. I have a girlfriend of 4 and a half months. Shes 15, same as me, and she is bisexual. She has hooked up with 4 different girls before in the past two years. One of them though meant a lot to her, and ...

My dad has been married five times and he has his sights on a nasty number six now, I cant cope anymore !

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - I was raised by my dad, over the years, my dad has been married 5 times but I am an only child for now. My dad is a great loving dad and I know he loves me a lot and I love him so much too but in and out I always have a new ever-changing mummy or ...

How do I get change in this marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 137 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - its been 5yr we were been merried and now i have a 1 yr old kid.he spends lot of time with my kid but nowadays he don't spend much time with me. so we had lot of talk regarding this matter he normally says that he loves me a lot. if he loves me he ...

My boyfriend says he doesn't mind my extra weight but has no problem picking on other overweight women!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 137 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - Hello, I'm slightly overweight, my boyfriend says he doesnt mind my extra weight and loves me no matter what. But, he has no problem picking on other chubbier women, like a friend of mines girlfriend is about the same size as me, but shorter...

Should I resist all temptations and remain her friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

22 April 2008 (M) - Here's the situation that im dealing with. So a few months back i was going to get married to this girl and the day before our big day she called it off, and the day after it was supposed to happen we vroke up and she left me for another guy. I ...

How can I get over this betrayal, he used me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - Hi I feel I am going mad. Last year my now ex partner if 6 years(who had already been married twice before he met me and done the same to them as to me) decided he wanted rid of me and someone else in, who he works with. We weren't married, so i...

Should I stay or should I go, he's out of prison and seeing another girl

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - my boyfriend has just gotten out of prison march 1st, after serving 7 years. we met 14 months ago, while he was out on a furlow from work release. well, he decided to go to the strip club with his brothers and friends, where he met a girl who i ...

He texted his ex on her birthday, Valentines, and other occasions...what's the deal!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 73 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - HELP! I was just checking thru my phone bill and found that my boyfriend of three years still has some contact with his x-financee - He has texted her or called on her b-day. valentines day. new years eve, before he and I went to Jamaica with his ...

I cheated on him but now I need him more than ever even though I broke up with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - I really still love my ex...i broke up with him because i had cheated...but now i need and want him more than ever...but he thinks i'm a hoe. i told him that people can change ;; but he doesn't think so. i need him and he told me he still has ...

Am I just being spoiled or is there really a serious problem here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 138 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - I have been in a extremely serious relationship since I was 16 with my boyfriend. i am now 21 and he has NEVER hit me, verbally abused me, degraded mme, or anything but, he is neglectful. Not in a huge way but he just dosen't pay attention to me and ...

His immaturity is hurtful! How can we get past the PAST?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - Ugh, I broke up with my BF again! We have issues because he dislikes my past with a passion, he can't quite understand why would I have had one night stands in the pasts and not feel like a whore afterwards. I lied about an incident too, bu...