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*iracles123
writes:how can i stop this horrible feelings of guilt?my boyfriend fingered some other girl whilst going out with me.i forgave him and and to be honest i couldnt care i just shook it off.but deep down i really care about this boy even though i dont show it, anyway and i wouldnt know what to do if i lost him,i am slowly loosing him.i keep thinking its my fault though.not being good enough ,but you cant get anyone nicer and and calmer then me,yeah i lose it when he does something serious but stupid things like not having sex when he asks for it he gets in a stress,or i hug another boy,i get so emotional when he is ignoring me or threatening me that its over.what can i do about this,miracles-ox Reply to this Question
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reader, Miracles123 +, writes (5 May 2008):
Miracles123 is verified as being by the original poster of the question tah for thar comments,yeah we are now over , feelign exttremely low and deprsessed but im sure it will go . thanks , miracles-ox
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reader, daisydaresyou +, writes (27 April 2008):
He's treating you really badly and it's him, not you, that is at fault. He sounds stupid and immature. If you want to hold on to your sanity and self esteem, you need to dump him. You can find someone much better.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (23 April 2008):
 Why do YOU feel guilty about your boyfriend being a jerk?
Clearly, he's giving you 50%, and a half-assed 50% at that. He's a cheater and he makes you feel lousy about youself... why would you want him anyway?
Ditch the loser and get with someone who treats you right and isn't shoving his fingers in ladies they don't belong in. Don't get emotional over a fella who isn't showing any emotion for you!
Good luck, sweetness and stay strong!
xx India
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reader, cottongin +, writes (22 April 2008):
 yeah, it doesnt' sound like hes into you all that much anymore, sorry to say. i would try to let him go, find someone who is more deserving of you. you're too good for him
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2008): He fingered another girl and you just shook it off? He gets mad when you won't have sex with you? He threatens you that it's over? Is there anything good that you could say about this loser? You, on the other hand are a kind forgiving person. Sounds like you need to move on & find a boy that is deserving of you. I know when you're so young, you think you're in love..I have been there. But trust me, it isn't love. And you can do better.
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