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Archived questions from: 1 April, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Caught in a marriage, and caught in an affair, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - I got married a month after I turned 18. No one knew. It was a secret, until I got married in church when I turned 19. We moved out of California across the way to Maryland. I left all family and friends behind because he was to be stationed ...

Stuck in a relationship with an alcoholic, is my reason to stay a valid one?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - I hate my boyfriend more and more each day. I dont know why I am with him. maybe its because I dont want to be a mom who has men in and out of my daughters life. but then again he isnt her father and it isnt really fair to subject her to him. I ...

She's a violent "slob" ! But....am I a bully?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

1 April 2008 (M) - As unbiased and truthful as it happened. Im in a relationship, 90% of the time its fine, we have our normal ups and downs as every one does. But everynow and again things get blown out of proportion. She's not the tidiest of people and Im wil...

Could you be mates with an ex that still owes you money?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - Hi If you offered to lend someone 5 grand because they said their remortgage was definately coming through in 2 weeks(their broker assured them) Then they got refused the remortgage :o? would you be a bit brassed off about it? I mean, if you spli...

I have confidence issues because of an ex, and although I have had other partners, this has remained a problem!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 158 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - I dated a close friend 6 months ago. Were still quite close as we have the same friends at college and are in the same class. Its very complicated but basically he has been quite mean in the past, lowering my confidence about my body etc, but i just ...

Do I give in to the sex to keep my boyfriend or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I are drifting apart I can just tell. I feel as though there is something more I can do but he won't tell me what. We haven't even had any sexual contact yet cuz I'm not ready and I think that bugs him... what can I do to make it so ...

Please help! I deperately love my Husband, but I have a secret, what can I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - Wow... All I can say is that I never needed advice more in my life than at this point. I am 24 years old. I met my fiance exactly a year ago and we were friends at first. I was just getting over a relationship where the man broke up with me after me ...

How can I move on! when the past still upset's me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - I've tried my best to save my marriage of 22 years but failed. We finally diovrced. I've met this man 18 years my senior, he is very supportive during my divorce. We've been together for a year now. We gets on well and our love is growing. Im ...

When he gets out of prison, will he have changed back into the man I fell in love with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 158 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - I dnt know where to start. I am a 26 yr old mom of 2 girls 11 and 7 and I waited for my oLdest daughters father after I fnd him in jail to get out cuz he said he had changed. He paroled out to my house in nov of 07 and I fnd out he cheated on me ...

I love him but the way the relationship is going is making me unhappy... I want a little more from him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - Hi!! me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year now, when we first got together he was wonderful always took me out always paid me compliments and so on.. but now none of this happend it was my birthday on saturday and he said that ...

I don't receive unique presents from my BF! How do I ask him about the duplicate order I have seen without appearing ungrateful or nosey?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - I don't know what to think about my boyfriend's actions. I have known him about 3 years now. When I first met him and we were getting to know each other I was telling him that an ex of mine had upset me because he used to buy his Mother similar ...

I want more but he just wants to be friends, why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - I need some advise please, I met a guy we were seeing eatch other for a few months, then al of the sudden he tells me he only want to be friends he is not ready for a relationship. A few months ago I ran into a guy that I know for 2 years he told me ...

She's selfish, immature, rarely has sex with me, doesn't trust me but I want to marry her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

1 April 2008 (M) - i've been with this girl for two years in may and when things are going good its the best feeling, but its not like that all the time. i'm 24 and she'll be 21 in july. i love her to death, we are very different, i'm from maui and shes from kansas. i ...

Pain 'down there' after sex... why?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

1 April 2008 (?) - After sex with my bf (long term, we've only been with each other - sexually anyways, so it cant be an STD) i always seem to be getting a 'burning' sensation down there. So much that he can't go back in again. So its more like we have sex, he ...

Commitment issues, or still in love with his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - I've been dating a guy exclusively for about 3 months now. I want things to become more serious (i.e. boyfriends) but he is so hesitant. He's confided in me that his relationship with his ex has impacted him greatly, even though their relationship ...

Help! I am seriously clueless when it comes to dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - Hello! I am seriously clueless when it comes to dating. Just got out of a long term relationship. I'm gonna make This as short as possible. So I saw the guy I like on Fri. A bunch of us went out to dinner for his brothers bday. I am close to his ...

Love or adultery?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - i m a married woman .but i have relationship with another man.i respect my husband and do all responsibeleties.but i coudnt share intimacy with my husband .what i enjoy with my lover.rumi....

She wont say she loves me because "you have not said the reason I am wanting to hear yet"-what does she mean?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

1 April 2008 (M) - I have been seeing this girl for a while, and we recently became a couple, and I have fallen in love with her. She has told me it takes her a while to fall in love or at least allow herself to feel that strongly because of her past. I have been ...

What do you consider cheating?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

1 April 2008 (M) - Say a girl is engaged, still in college, while her fiancee is 300 miles away. She dates another boy on pretty much a regular bases. She makes out with the other boy and even does it while spending the night in his bed wih him, no sex, but wearing ...

How can I prove to people I'm not jealous of my twin sister?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - Im so fed up with people thinking im jealous of my twin sister. We went out on Saturday and I got a bit too drunk. I cant go out much because I have a baby, but she's always out. She knows loads of people, so while she was talking to all her ...

Our communication is not as intense as it was at first, 'honeymoon period' over or something deeper?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - Hello everyone. Just wondering if I could get a few opinions from some of you. My boyfriend and I have been hitting a little bit of a rough patch lately. When we first started dating, we saw each other very often, text messaged every day, numer...

My boyfriend is sulking because I paid a bill to help him out, when should I start pushing him to get over this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - I hurt my boyfriends pride yesterday by paying a bill for him to help him out with money. We have been dating for 7 years and do not live together. He will not talk to me now because I hurt his pride. How long do I let him be mad before I really ...

I love her but I feel she is ignoring me sometimes or am I being too clingy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

1 April 2008 (M) - I have this amazing girl she's honest and will never cheat on me i love her with my life but lately i feel less needed by her. Not too long ago we had a brake but were now back together she says that she loves me and i always say the same i plan on ...

If a woman is more educated than a man, and/or a different race would this cause marriage problems?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - What do you guys think when in a relationship, the woman is more educationally advanced than the man, and they are different races? Do you think it will create problems once they are married? Her family do not like the fact that he has not gone to ...