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Archived questions from: 7 April, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How long should I hold out for the love of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - things with my ex weren't good, even though we both really loved each other. after breaking up in october and taking several months apart (no contact except for a few weeks in december) he called and wanted to see if i'd be interested in trying ...

His children are controlling his life, any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - How do you get a man to stop allowing his grown kids to control his choice of potential mates? They just don't want him to date anyone and i think that this is unfair. Inheritence is one of the reasons probably and i do not think that that is the ...

Is he telling me he wants space?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - Hi there.. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. We have been through a lot including abortion. 3 days ago I was ready to walk out because he's always flirting with this one girl and I have explained to him that it hurts me. I understa...

I'm fed up being left wondering where we stand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - Hey Guys, please help I really like this guy I have been dating! He wants to move slow.(Even though we have made love and it is unbelievable!) he doesn't talk much about what he likes, just that I will find out in time. He want to get to know m...

I cant say no to being with the love of my life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 276 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - So me an my boyfriend of almost 6 months just broke up, an I dont know what to do honestly, he came over friday night and we hung out for a little while then he broke up with me, i was heart broken so we talked for like 2 hours then we got ...

I just want my younger bf to grow up and be able to take care of himself.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 8 months have been having problems recently. He is younger then me by 2 years(18 and I'm 20), and he pretty much left his old life (friends and even family that he doesn't get along with) to be with me and start something new. The ...

Potentially Gay boyfriend and relationship trouble!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 276 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - Hi, i just need some advice on this issue (it's kind of long!): So I'm in college and my boyfriend of 3 years and I were involved in this performing arts activity that had us travel two hours away from school every weekend. We ended up staying...

I am in love with my boss, but I have to leave.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 277 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - Hi, I have been sleeping with my boss for the past 12 months. He is divorced and I am almost divorced. I just can't seem to work in the same company with him. We get along great out of work, but at work things are very strained. I want to quit my ...

How do you tell an ex you are still in love with them ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - How do you tell an ex you are still in love with them 8 months after the break-up, I'm still good friends with him, and I don't want to ruin that, plus I'm unsure if he's still with his current girlfriend..Please help, I'm not a very brave person :(...

My boyfriend is too close to a guy who has a vendetta against me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 276 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend recently went away with a group of friends for the weekend, one of which has a particular vendetta against me as I refused to sleep with him a few years ago. My boyfriend has returned very cocky... not nasty, just full of himself an ...

Fiancee lied about past sex life, what to do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - I have been with my fiance a little more than a year now. We were talking one day and our past sex life came up. I was a virgin until I met him. I've always strongy believed in sex after marriage, and I made a big mistake breaking it, but I'm at ...

After 8 years apart he still hasn't divorced his ex, I don't want to be cast into the street over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - I've written before about my boyfriend who is still married to his first wife even though they have been separated for 8 years. I love him dearly and he says he loves me dearly and I do believe that. He treats me with so much love and respect and ...

How much time is time? How long should I wait?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - Hi aunts (and uncles) I just need to get opinions on what to do next - I am with my guy over 2 years and we split up nearly 4 weeks ago over something silly and stupid (even tho it was mostly my fault/idea to break up in the first place). Bu...

Should I apologise, even though I feel indignant about HIS behaviour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 277 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for three years and we share a small flat together. On Saturday night he had his mate stay over. Despite my offerings to stay at my mums my boyfriend insisted that I stayed in with the two of them. After working all week...

I'm in love with my boyfriend of 10months but I have a feeling that he is still seeing his baby's mother!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 277 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - i'm inlove with my boyfriend of 10months but i have a feeling that he is still seeing his baby's mother and that he is keeping things from me! he has not introduced me to his family or even his daughter and her mother but he keeps telling me that he ...

Should I give him a month to think things through?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - "I have been with a guy for 7 years who is not ready to get married yet, we are both approaching 30 and to make things worse we have been living in different cities for 3years now. Our relationship has survived the distance until recently when we ...

My marriage limps along and I feel so lonely...please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - Hi - would be pleased to hear from anyone else with similar experience or who could help.... When I got married in my early 20's my mother-in-law had already taken a dislike to me. It wasn't the classic 'not good enough' routine. It was fundament...

Should I have been more appreciative or is it right to expect a little more fairness within the household?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - I have been living with my boyfriend and his best friend for about a year and recently the best friend has become increasingly selfish and obnoxius. For example, taking my work clothes out of the dryer without telling me and putting in his own and ...

My girlfriend has a huge problem with me being friends with my ex! What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 265 days ago

7 April 2008 (M) - I had a 8 year relationship in which I was engaged and very close to a woman. That ended three years ago. Recently, I began dating another woman and it has become serious. I felt to resolve the feelings from my past that I would need to make friends ...

I can't figure this man out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - I've been dating a man who has been separated for three years, but has not divorced his wife. He has very low self esteem and drinks daily. He constantly feels the need to frequent bars and seek attention from females but does not sleep with them. ...

I now work for the Married Man that has I have been attracted to who has been coming on to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 278 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - Well this has become a doozy. I started at this company and this guy who worked with me has been trying to come on to me since that time. He is married. I have to admit I am extremely attracted to him. Unfortunately I have went to lunch with him ...

My mom hates my new baby girl!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - i have been having sex with both my husband and his best friend (his first cousin) for 11 years. we were to be a double date when we were 17 and Jackson's (my husbands cousin) date did not show up. so we went out as a trio and been that way ever ...

I really regret what I did to him, how can I make it right?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have met this guy and we have been together for about a year, and through half the year I sexually cheated on him with my ex and lied. I'm not in love with my ex but i am defintely in love with my guy right now. I was stupid and r...

Was I too accommodating to his needs?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - OK, I've been dating a guy since January. All we do is have sex. We've been out just a couple of times in 3 months. At first, he was head over heels for me. Anything I wanted, he was there. Now, all he wants to do is come over, have sex, slee...

Am I wasting my time with this man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - Been seeing this guy for 6 weeks. He's still distant at times. Is intimate, but when we are together, he doesn't give into small talk. He states he has to get to know someone before opening up. Is this normal or am i wasting my time?...

Is it unrealistic to even consider that we may/could make our marriage work NOW??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - I married in April of last year for the second time. My first marriage occurred when i was very young, wayyyy too young. It lasted less than a year and i view it as a mistake made due to my age and immaturity. This time, however, i really felt like...