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Archived questions from: 2 April, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Am I just kidding myself that we're good together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

2 April 2008 (F) - I have been with my bf for 3 years, I love him more then anything, but some times he really does talk down to me and I feel really low from this. If I spoke the same way to him, he seems to still be able to turn things around, and I still end up ...

For some unknown reason he's stopped ignoring my calls and I'm nothing without him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

2 April 2008 (F) - my bf hasnt contacted me for over 3 days. i really miss him, its not like him, he texts me like every minute of the day. im so worried about him, i cant go to his house as he lives like 2 hours away. hes ignoring my calls and text messages. i ...

How to tell him that I want to wait without him breaking up with me?...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

2 April 2008 (F) - I'm dating a guy who's 8 years older than me and I'm 17. He kind of freaks me out a little, because everytime we talk on the phone or in person it always goes to getting in bed. I really don't feel comfortable doing that so soon, but i seem really ...

How do I deal with my emotionally cheating BF?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

2 April 2008 (F) - Last October, i found out that my bf was talking on the internet with a girl who i disliked (because i think she liked him). He talked to her for about 2 weeks without telling me and when i found out, his excuse was that he didnt think he had to ...

He never pleases me in bed when I ask to be pleased, should I surrender to his phantasy, a threesome, because I love him?....

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

2 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend really wants a threesome with another girl, hes always said before me and him got together about how its his fantasy and i do want to give it to him because i love him and want to give him what he wants. But im too scared to, i worry ...

Do I make men behave this way or I just "pick" men like this, the aggresive and controlling type? Is this reason enough to leave them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

2 April 2008 (F) - I recently went on holiday with my boyfriend (3 year relationship) and it went badly - we argued and at one point he moved towards me in such a way I thought he was going to hit me. I threw a cushion at him and he shoved me backwards I fell on the ...

He is addicted to the internet and I I feel like I can't get any attention?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

2 April 2008 (F) - hi, I am so depressed at the moment, heres the story. I know its a bit boring but bare with me.. I've been going out with my partner for 2.5 years and we have been living together for about 6 months now. We've alway been a fiery couple but deep ...

She tries to bring me back in... but keeps me at arms length. Why is she doing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 188 days ago

2 April 2008 (M) - My ex and I have been split up since November. When she broke up with me she said she didn't want to lose me completely. So we've been in limited contact via text messages pretty much ever since. There's been times when I've really missed he...

He has a girlfriend who works at the same place. So why does he keep looking at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

2 April 2008 (F) - I see a bloke every week where he works. A couple of months ago, I noticed him looking at me.(staring). He does this every week and when he's talking to his work mate, he continues to stare at me. I think he likes me. I asked him a question ...

I feel I have no self esteem because of the things shes said to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 187 days ago

2 April 2008 (F) - Im a 20year old woman and my girlfriend is 35. She os my first partner and weve been together for just over a year, everything was perfect at the beggining but now its all falling to peices. In the past we tallked about marriage and starting a ...

I'm lucky in love but feeling bored?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 188 days ago

2 April 2008 (F) - Im 45 just divorced then met this lovely man 63. I love being round him. He always makes me laugh. I feel really lucky to find love again right after my divorce. We've been together a year and all we do is shopping at supermarkets or watching ...

Is my husband gay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

2 April 2008 (F) - My husband is 34 and we have been together for 4 years and we have a baby boy,for the past 2 years i have caught him on gay websites many times!and he allways say he hasnt been on them..I know he has. he is gay....

This is more to do with my bestfriend rather than my boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

2 April 2008 (?) - this is more to do with my bestfriend rather than my bofriend. i have been going out with my boyfriend now for 19 months. i adore him he means absolutly everything to me but ive actually known him for about 8 years. we met in primary school w...

My partner is working night shifts and I hate it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

2 April 2008 (F) - When he has woken up in the afternoon, i have to go to work. We have 2 small children and i dont have any energy, i tried taking the baby to a playgroup, so i could make some friends, but i always slept late and I had way too much housework to do. ...

I'm fed ape monkeying around, what makes a real chimpion for women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

2 April 2008 (M) - 'Pretty women out walking with gorillas down my street' These are the word from a famous pop song. Can someone tell me what women want, i'm confused. I've done all the talking about feelings thing and seem to get blown out for guys that can barely ...

How do we regain that lost friendship so that everything else can fall into place to regain that bond?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

2 April 2008 (F) - How do we regain that lost friendship so that everything else can fall into place to regain that bond? We have been together for two years and three months, very young relationship but have been through a lot together. Living together, we sha...

Help! Husband thinks his Persil-nal washing and cleaning gifts can brooming well clean up as romantic presents!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

2 April 2008 (F) - This thing is really bothering me and I don't know how to deal with it. Dan (my darlin' hubby) often has a habit of buying me cleaning products on occasions such as Birthdays or Christmas' and it really doesn't make me feel very special consider...

Husband has drink problem and other issues,we need advice on how to get through this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 189 days ago

2 April 2008 (F) - My partner and I have been together for nearly 15 years now, it's been on and off for the last 5 years though. He has a drinking problem which he is beginning to recognise. He actually stayed off it for nearly 6 months. However he broke out 2 months ...

Please help me, I am getting down with the way husband is acting towards me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

2 April 2008 (F) - I am getting very very down about the way my husband is towards me and whenever I say about it he gets annoyed with me. If I give some examples of his behaviour...I would be so grateful for anyones opinion as I feel like I don't know whether I ...

What can I do to save this relationship? Any advice can help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

2 April 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are together for 3 years, living together for 2 years.Last months were nerve-racking, we are arguing and fighting almost every day.I think there are 2 problems here: 1)i feel that i'm giving him much more and care about him more...

Bottom line is I don't trust him-should I walk away or stay?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

2 April 2008 (F) - id really like some advice as i have come to my last option. i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2years. it has been very hard and emotional to stay together. in the begginning he told me he was single with no kids. after a few months he kept ...

How do we know when we are tryin g to hard?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

2 April 2008 (M) - How does one know when one is trying too hard? I met a girl ona dating website just under a year ago, we've been talking all this time, and I'm absolutely crazy about her. She's the first girl I've really cared about since I seperated from my ex wi...

I'm sure she is cheating on me, what are the signs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 188 days ago

2 April 2008 (M) - Dear cupid: I have this beautiful girl but lately she doesn't pay attention to me anymore. When i try to talk to her she starts arguements. Once she came to my house smelling all weird as if she had sex but she says that she doesn't and will...

Ok I have made a huge mistake......but is it better I don't tell the truth?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

2 April 2008 (F) - ok i have a made a huge mistake..there is this real cute guy in college and everyone thinks that we look awsome together and i know that this guy too lets call him mark checks me out but hasnr spoken to me as yet..even i did not try talkin to him ...

I threw out my younger husband for cheating online, but I still love him what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

2 April 2008 (F) - Hi. I'm really in trouble. My new husband have just taken out a remortgage on my house so that he can set up in business and make a better life for us. I'm much older than him and this was a very big thing for me to do, but I trusted him as I ...

He's doing the dirt behind my friends back what can I do that wont affect our 11-year friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

2 April 2008 (F) - I have a best friend who has a boyfriend, Ok all of a sudden other females are trying to let my friend know that he's still talking to his ex girlfriend. Because 1 how did his ex girlfriend find out about them moving, that he has a new car, and that ...

The man I am in love with has just moved to America-How can I get through this???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

2 April 2008 (F) - The man I am in love with has just moved to Amercia and I'm totally lost. We have spent the last 3months together - nearly everyday but at least talking/texting everyday and it has been a great time but now he has moved away (probably for go...

He wants to practice picking up women so that he can make a career out teaching other guys, I'm not happy with this!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

2 April 2008 (F) - Hello, I've been exclusively dating a nice guy for almost 8 months now. We've had good times together and he is always there for me when I need him. The thing is, before he met me, he was very promiscuous. (I don't have a lot of dating experien...

My nan and his pop are first cousins! Would this affect any future children we may have?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

2 April 2008 (F) - Please help. my boyfriend and i have been together for 5 years and have just found out that my nan and his pop are 1st cousins. we are devestated and wondering what problems there will be if we decide to stay together and have children??? ...

I need advice with my relationship with married guy and my developing jealousy of his family life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

2 April 2008 (F) - i have been dating with a married man. I love him very much and he said he loved me very much too. we meet at least twice a week . either we went out for lunch on lunch break of one hour or one weekend evenings. at the beginning i thought we were ...

We've had no sex since his test, why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

2 April 2008 (F) - Hi Help- met a gorgeous man instant attraction for both, I am 10 years older than him, sex the first week every night, then he had to go for a test, then he said he had to heal from the test, and then no sex, sleeping together, hugging each other, h...

Her ex doesn't know about our relationship so how can I get her her to back off from my girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

2 April 2008 (F) - Im 18 and my girlfriend is 40. I have some trust issues and im finding it hard to cope while my girlfriends ex keeps ringing and texting. Her ex does not know she is in a relationship because of the age gap, my girlfriend is too scared to say. But i ...

Now, I think I want my ex back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

2 April 2008 (F) - I am pretty sure that I will be leaving my live-in. We have been together off and on for five years. Me bending over backwards, finally giving in. We have never done 'couple activities', besides going out to eat 7 times in those years. Ho...

Please help me sort my boyfriend out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

2 April 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been dating this guy for almost three years. He is sweet and good hearted and I love being around him. However, in the beginning I was able to overlook problems that are now a huge concern for me. First, my boyfriend is ve...

Crush on a teacher gone way too far!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

2 April 2008 (F) - I hope someone can get their head round this because I cant! So i've known this guy for years, he's 23 years older than me, he was my teacher years ago, we had a business together and we've spent so much time chatting over the years - He was m...