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Archived questions from: 8 January, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Do I stop snooping and just confront him, demanding an answer?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - While paying the phone bill I found that my boyfriend sent 33 text messages in the past month. Not that unusual except that he has only sent 1 or 2 a month in the past and when I asked who he had sent so many messages to, he responded with a smile ...

Boyfriend's addiction to porn is ruining our relationship

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - Iv been with my bf for 3 years, im 20 and his 25, the problem is I work all day and when I come home I often find evidence that he has been getting off to porn, it really bothers me because he says that his sex drive is low do to some medications he ...

Are we a bit too young for this type of relationship? Any advice really appreciated.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - I have been going out with my bf for about a year and a half and i love him very much, he really is the person i want to settle down with. But i am starting to wonder if we are still a bit young and a bit immature? recently we have been arguing ...

I've fallen in love with my best mates daughter, but I don't want to hurt my gay partner of 16 years. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6317 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - ive been in a gay relationship 4 16yrs and have fallen in love with my best mates daughter im not happy in my relationship and have not been for a few yrs now but we have 2 children together so its stopping me from leaving her as i dont wanna hurt ...

I gave her my love and my all, then she throws it all away again. Am I right to be mad at her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

8 January 2007 (M) - Recently a very strong (so I thought) relationship was ended that I was in. My girlfriend broke up with me. What happened is that, well, on Monday (Jan.1) she broke up with me because this guy she met for one night and "was told alot about" she ...

Family member in a very controlling relationship. We are all worried about him. What do we do? Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - I am writing this problem because i want to help my cousin out with a big problem he is having. He is a 2nd cousin, and although we aren't exactly close, i feel very sorry for him at this moment in time. The story goes like this. He met ...

He's casually dating both me and his ex. I don't want to be jealous, any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - What's the proper way to act when your one of two people seriously dating someone? In my previous relationships I've always jumped right from casual dating into a relationship and have never been one of numerous people dating 1 person. But in my...

Husband can't control his own finances so he leaches off mine and lies about it! Please someone give me advice on what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - My husband had a heart attack in September followed by quadrupple bypass surgery. While I have suspected serious financial difficulties - my suspicions weren't nearly as monumental as what I found while he was in the hospital. When I went to clean ...

Im not sure I trust him. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - hi, im 22 and my bf is 25, this is my 2nd serious relationship and his first. the problem is that he doesnt trust me at all, i dont really know what to do, its got to the point that i dont go anywhere without him unless he knows where i am...he ...

My bf is unhappy with his job and social life, but takes it out on me! I feel like leaving him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - Im really frustrated and angry with my boyfriend. He is unhappy in his job and has no friends. He is taking it out on me because I'm at university and see my friends a lot, I'm working part time and I'm quite happy. We live together but its 50:50, i ...

I pushed him away w/ my nagging, but we're trying to make things work. I think his feelings have changed - am I just being silly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - Hi there, I am eighteen years old, I have been in a relationship for almost a year with someone who I believe to be the love of my life. We had been dating for about nine months when we both left home to come to the same University, we spent a lot ...

She thinks the world revolves around her and her bf. She can't figure out why friends are avoiding her, though. Should I tell her the reason?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - i have this friend and she is pretty cool. she would tell me about her problems within herself and i helped her out. i got her a bf because i thought that's what she needed. then, a month later she starts to change. she's always bashing people about ...

While drunk, I asked my ex's ex-bf about their sex life and he told her what I said. Now she's mad at me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

8 January 2007 (M) - Saturday night i went out with my ex girlfriend's older brother as a lad's night out (3 Lads Went Out) that night my ex girlfriend went out down town where me and her brother was. i had a good night got drunk and then my problem started. i sa...

Am I just sensitive, or does my bf actually like this other girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - Me and my bf went to dinner last night with a group of people and I think he is interested in this girl. What are the signs guys show when he is interested? I know she loves to have all the guys attention to her all the time. My bf looked interested ...

He slept w/ our maid for 10 months before I caught them! Counseling is not available in our area, so what can be done?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4794 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - i have been marriage for 18 years with four children.we are from the uk and have lived in thailand for the past two years,my hasband committed adultry with our live in thai maid for ten months before i caught them.she has gone and he said he was ...

I was not a priority in my bf's life, so I made new plans for myself. Now he's smothering me! I'm so confused. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6323 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a lad who did not express his emotions. He very rarely complimented me and even when he did it was usually after my prompting 'do you like my new top?' etc. He was always very wrapped up in his own activities a...

He admitted to watching porn and paying for adult emails through our relationship... three days before our wedding! I couldn't back out and still feel resentful! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - Hello. I've been married to my husband for almost two years. About three days before my husband and I married, I found out that he had been watching porn online and paying for emails from women to get him off. The reason I found out is because I ...

My gf gets drunk and says she wants to split and texts her friends that she doesn't want a "real" relationship. She tells me there are no problems! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

8 January 2007 (M) - Hello, I am seeing a very lovely girl, and the majority of the time we get on great. However, she can be very hot and cold with me, and I need some advice. She has, on many occasions, told me that she did not want to see me anymore (usually when she ...

My bf lied to me and acted as if he didn't care anymore. Then he said he loved me. I'm so confused. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6323 days ago

8 January 2007 (M) - Hello I'm 18 and gay. 8 months ago i gout out of a really bad relationship. It was a kind of relationship that was a very controlling one and the guy i was with hit me at the end for leaving him. Recently i have found myself meeting a new guy who i ...

We worked through our rocky times, but I ended up sleeping w/ someone else! I don't think it was wrong, but I feel guilty.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - Hi I need advice i did something and dont know what i should do about it. Im 22 and with my boyfriend for nearly 7yrs we bought a house together over a year ago and things were rocky to begin with but we overcame them and things have been great the ...

We are paranoid the other is going to cheat! How do we learn to trust one another?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - Hi, I am 31 and I have had real trouble with trust issues in all my previous relationships, ie I think I'm going to be cheated on or dumped all the time. I am now with a wonderful man(been together 6 months but v in love) who I will marry becau...

We went out for his birthday and he got drunk and let a girl touch all over him! I felt so stupid and small.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - Hi there, Just wondered peoples opinions on this situation. I have been seeing a guy for a couple of months now I am having doubts because of something he did which to be honest made me feel very small. It was his birthday and we met up with ...

How can I tell my bf that I cheated on him...again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - Before the new year came in I succumbed to kissing a guy I found attractive. It was not intention at all. Since then I told my boyfriend of two years he was obviously upset because at parties when he is there I am always giving this guy attentio...

I constantly doubt my bf! How do I change my ways?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - I constantly doubt my boyfriend, and question him on absolutely everything, even though he's never done anything wrong. How can i change my ways?...

He was jealous of my past, then I learned about his - now I'm jealous! Should I let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - Help!!!a wrote in a while back sayin that my boyfriend is really jealous about my past im 18 and have slept with 3 ppl,he then confessed the only reason hes been so jealous is that he lied to me sayin he had only slept with 4ppl when he has actually ...

I hate my ex for what he did to me. How do I behave when I see him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - Me and my ex split bc of trust issues. We were on-again off-again status for about 4 months after our relationship ended. Every time that we split was because he wasn't sure what he felt for me. He kept saying "I don't know" and I was always stuck ...

He doesn't call and he's saying one thing but doing another! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6323 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - Okay so now he started this new job where he works nights and he and I both knew we wouldn't be talking as much but I didn't think itd be this bad.he has 2 jobs and I mean I don't mind that just gimme a phone call every now n then to let me know you ...

He lies, he calls me names, he threatens me and it's like I am not important to him! What can I do? (Long)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and I love him with all of my heart and soul but he hurts me so much! He is always lying to me. He says he won't do drugs and then he goes out with his friend and does them, he never answers my calls ...