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Archived questions from: 11 January, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I think his idea of 'love' means just convenient sex. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 588 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - For over 2 years I have been involved with a divorced man my age. We had met a year before that but I was still in a very troubled marriage (5 years, no children)so all we did was talk, like pals, and then I didn't see him again. I had no other ...

Gf is casuinf trouble for me--should I just break it off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 586 days ago

11 January 2007 (M) - hey im 13 and my girlfriends 16. we recently had a fight because her name wasnt in my msn name. which is perfectly understandable because iv told her that i dont show emotion in msn. so she went and got her couzin to threaten me (which was blatently ...

I don't want to be like his ex-wife and ask him to stop playing his video games..but it is buggin me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 585 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - My boyfriend plays video game as a way to release stress (or for fun too). His ex-wife always had a problem with him playing games and not spending time with her. He's only in his early 20s. He doesn't smoke or drink or go clubbing. Everyone has ...

I want someone I can have a future with-should I break it off with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 587 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - Hey everyone! A very happy new year to you all! I wanted your opinion on this dilemma i'm faced with. I'm 25 and my boyf is 3 yrs n 10 months younger than me. We're very much in love and have been for the last yr n a half. I come from a family wh...

I can't trust her and I need someone reliable! Should I walk away?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 224 days ago

11 January 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together 6 yrs. 3 months ago she decided to start to flirt with some guy on myspace. It progressed into her playing with herself while she would talk to him on the phone, in my bed. I did some snooping cuz I could tell ...

When will my sister stop telling me not to be moody? I haven't had a temper since I was a teen and she acts like I still do.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - Hi: I'm 32 yrs. single and currently living with my parents. An older sister of mine (34yrs.) who visits frequently sometimes makes innapropriate comments about my temper like she used to do when we lived toghether and when we were on school. This ...

After our discussion about my trust issues w/ her, she acts the same. Is it time to call it quits?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 588 days ago

11 January 2007 (M) - Is it time to call it quits in the relationship when you have a lot of doubts/questions about your girlfriend? We've had talks about my feelings and 'trust issues' before. But, the same things seem to be happening over and over. Is it because I ...

He just split from his ex and we get on great! But he's never the one to contact me. Is this a signal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 587 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - what is in his mind? i am so confused !pls help. he just split with his ex for about 2 months, he said she was always too intense and he tried to distance from her for helping break-up. we dated twice and slept together, after the 1st time, he did...

My bf is outgoing in social settings and I'm shy and uncomfortable. This makes me feel bad about myself. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 587 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - hi! i'm a shy young lady who loves her boyfriend, but has a problem with jealousy and possessiveness. Even though, I know he means well to me, I still feel suspicious towards him and asking annoying questions. Deep down inside I feel that what he ...

He's lying to me about stuff on his computer! How do I tell him I went through it and know he's lying?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 587 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - m upset because i feel my relationship is going downhill, my b/f lied to me about stuff that i found on his computer i asked him if he had it he said 'no' but i saw it with my own eyes how do i tell him i know he is lying i went through his personal ...

My friends make fun of my bf b/c he's a bit overweight and not incredibly attractive. But he's a lovely guy!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 582 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - i have just started dating a guy who i really like.my friends make fun of him though because he is a little overweight and not the most attractive guy.these comments that my friends are saying really hurt me because he is such a lovely guy and they ...

We were friends, then slept together. I liked him, but he didn't want a r-ship. Now we hardly talk and I feel so bad.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 587 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - does his guy really like me? Ok...here is the story, its a long one! i just am so confused, i wish i could read guys minds! We met at college about 5 years ago, and for about 2 years we were the best of friends. We used to go to the ci...

My gf moved in and we tried to blend our families. Then she moved out b/c her son wasn't happy. I feel very empty now. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 586 days ago

11 January 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for over two years now. About six months ago we decided to move in together and try to blend our families. I have a 15 year old daughter who lives with me and two boys ages 13 and 9 who live with me on the ...

I saw that a woman emailed my husband about spanking him! I'm devistated but don't want to end it b/c of an email!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 587 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - I put this one on other place and I have never done this before but I need help. So public I need your advise. Here we go. I have been happily married for 12yrs. been together for 15yrs. We don't have children. We have always done things t...

My fiance emailed women from dating sites and turns everything we say into an argument! How can we stop this petty squabbling??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 588 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - Hi I wonder if you can help me......I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years, lived together for over 2 years and plan to marry next year. When we are getting on, things are great but when they arnt, they are very bad and we seem to be ...

I was really upset when we broke up, but i was in tears wen i heard about this gal! Should I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 587 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - Me and my bf were together for 7 months then he ended it because we were apparntly too close. So now we are both single, 14 and see eachother around school. He gives me hugs and kisses and that... but its nice beacuse i like attention from him! But ...

I slept with my best friend's brother, but I really have feelings for her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 588 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - i really need help! i have a bf and recently i lost my virginity 2 him. my relationship with him was bad enough because he is my best friend's younger brother. however for quite a while now i have been having incredibly strong feelings for the best ...

She said she wanted to meet w/ her ex and I said I didn't like it. Now she's ignoring my calls and sending me abusive texts!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 587 days ago

11 January 2007 (M) - Am i right to be concerned??? AGAIN !!! See yesterdays post. Thanks for advice...but now what do I do? After telling me that she wanted to meet her ex on Tuesday afternoon I simply said that my instant reaction was that I was not happy. I had to ...

We split after 8 years last April. Then he dated and split w/ the girl after 2 months. We've been getting along, but now she's back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 588 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - OK - I really need some advice here. I have been in an 8 year relationship with great highs and terrible lows. Unfortunately my partner developed severe back problems, such that he was bed bound and unable to stand for very long. After 6 years ...

Our sex life is non-existant. I even get the feeling she'd be happy if I left her and the kids. How do I save our relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 585 days ago

11 January 2007 (M) - My girlfriend of 6 years and I have 3 beautiful kids. I love her and used to think she did too. However, she just won’t have sex with me. It went downhill after our first baby but that was OK – she just needed time right? Now our youngest is 16 ...

We haven't been getting along for the past year - is it our age difference?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 588 days ago

11 January 2007 (M) - problem , i"m 41 and my girlfriend is 28,we have been together 7 yrs and for the most part its been the best ever relationship i've been in, (two previous relationships)for the past twelve months the relationship has slowly been going wrong, clashes ...

She split, said she wasn't seeing anyone, then phoned 3 weeks later to say that she was. We were engaged! Is there still a chance for us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 587 days ago

11 January 2007 (M) - hi my girlfriend and i were together for nearly seven years,she is 21 and i am 26.we have been engaged for nearly 3years and we brought our first house together in august 2005 and everything seemed to be going well,then the end of november she ...

My ex is sleeping w/ me...and others! What if they're not using protection?! And how can I get her back w/ just me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 587 days ago

11 January 2007 (M) - My Ex Girlfriend and myself r doing great everything going great no problem's where best friends who sleep with each over and it's never werld 1 bit. last night she came up we had something to eat we made love. and everything was going great. ...

My ex's grandmother made plans to visit me for a few days! How can I politely tell her no?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 588 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - Hi cupids Here it goes my ex and I broke it off 3yrs ago we have a son together who turned 9 this year, we had an on/off rship for almost 10yrs during this time I got very close to his family and friends and the same went for him we were hoping t...

My GF of 6 years wanted space to sort out her feelings - should I wait for her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 587 days ago

11 January 2007 (M) - Will we ever be together again?? My gf and I dated for 6 years. We are both 24. Anyways our relationship was good. We were both deeply in love. In the summer she said that she felt like she had drifted apart from me and that if felt like she on...

Been together 3 years, have a baby but I am fond of someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 589 days ago

11 January 2007 (M) - Sorry did post b4 but didnt add some details I have a girlfriend i been with for 3 years. we have split up for six month but have been back together for a yr. I love her but i met this girl recently who i have been really fond with. I am only ...