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writes: Help!!!a wrote in a while back sayin that my boyfriend is really jealous about my past im 18 and have slept with 3 ppl,he then confessed the only reason hes been so jealous is that he lied to me sayin he had only slept with 4ppl when he has actually slept with about 40ppl i dnt hate him for it im glad he told me but now i feel really jealous because everygirl he knows im wonderin if hes slept with them...should i be jealous os should i just let it go?..helpme.....xxxxxxx
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (9 January 2007):
 It seems like you both need to sit down and talk about this. The lack of communication, or lies, has caused this to be worse than it has to be and this could break you up if you don't sort it now.
Sit down and tell each other everything you want to tell them or everything they want to know. Knowing about all this stuff, now it's in the open already, is the only way to get the truth, accept it and move forward.
I know it's hard to think about your partner with someone else. Everyone feels this way and it's awful when they've slept with many people too. But if you can't accept the things you find out when you have this chat then walk. The past doesn't go away and if you can't accept it, don't waste your time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2007): I think you need to get over this or move on, you cant have a relationship with someone that you are jealous of it just wont work. Evreryone has a past and thats exactly what it is, the past!. so dont worry about it, if he had slept with 2 people or 200 he would still be the same person so whatsthe problem?, and at least he has experience in the bedroom!.
But seriously you have to get past this or it will break you up.
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