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What is vanilla sex?

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Question - (31 March 2013) 8 Answers - (Newest, 31 March 2013)
A male Albania age 30-35, *ew_member writes:

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What does people consider "vanilla sex"? How does mostly practise it and do you find it unattractive or not excited?

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (31 March 2013):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntFrankly, I think that vanilla extract gets a bad rap when folks use the term "plain vanilla" in this manner.

Please Google "vanilla" and learn what an EXQUISITE product it is.... and how it is pervasive in so many products that we (all) like...

THEN, come back to your submittal....and decide if there REALLY IS something such as "vanilla sex".....

For me... ALL sex is "Rocky Road"!!!!!!!

Good luck....

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A female reader, AuntyEm United Kingdom +, writes (31 March 2013):

AuntyEm agony auntVanilla refers to straight sex without any BDSM.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2013):

That's an easy question. Vanilla sex is what makes your partner yawn in the middle of the act.

The experience is simple, mechanical, and totally void of passion and excitement. Usually ending in a lack-luster or one-sided orgasm. Or no orgasm for anyone.

Generic sex.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (31 March 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntONE on ONE with the same partner (no other guests in the bedroom)

no BDSM

no role playing

I think of missionary position in the dark at bedtime which I guess for some could sound boring...

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A female reader, Daisy_Daisy United Kingdom +, writes (31 March 2013):

Daisy_Daisy agony auntVanilla sex is sex without any kinkiness at all. It makes me think of the missionary position only, though others would have different ideas maybe.

Some people may love it and it's all they will do/ want/ have, others may find it unexciting and boring. It depends on the individual.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2013):

Vanilla sex means 'plain' sex, like no toys, dressing up etc. Just two people having sex. Its exciting!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2013):

My interpretation would be 'standard' sex, as in missionary or another common position. I wouldn't necessarily say its boring sex, but it's nothing particularly adventurous about it either.

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom +, writes (31 March 2013):

N91 agony auntVanilla sex is another way of saying something is plain or boring.

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