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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:First off: I am a virgin, I have been dating my boyfriend for awhile and we started fooling around the other night and /tried/ to have sex but..... He could not get it in with and without the condom on. We tried missionary and doggy and it just would not go in. I know I'm obviously tight, but he also is not.. um, well endowed down there either. We are both bigger people and I don't know if that also hinders things. Oh and another side note- my boyfriend has had a pacemaker since age 6 and he's on medication for his heart, and he told me that sometimes it will affect how long he stays hard- he did say that he has had sex before and it's only caused problems maybe a few times. Anyways- it was all around a big clumsy mess and I am just kind of embarrassed. We tried twice! I am just curious if anyone has any sort of tips, tricks or advice for my issues with him? Thank you !
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reader, Soul Writer +, writes (29 March 2013):
 Sounds like a very uncomfortable and inconvenient situation! I apologize that you two are struggling with this. It sounds like he might have some circulation issues. I wouldn't worry about the pacemaker so much, because it is set to keep his heart beating at a constant rate. You could try to participate in sexual intercourse in a warm environment, if you haven't done so already. Perhaps a lubrication will help stimulate the penis more, creating a longer erection. Also, you could try a vibrating ring for him. Take the time and have the patience to move slowly and listen to your bodies. You will soon discover what works and what does not. If one thing falls through, try something else. Ask him what his turn ons are. Remember to have fun!
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