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female
age
16-17,
*enni
writes:Is there something wrong with me?I had sex, not for the first time and now my vagina is really painful and the labia minora can be seen, its kinda inflamed. I don't not what to do. I am not under age but my mum would still go mental, help please
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reader, PixiePie + ♥, writes (1 November 2009):
 no there is nothing wrong with you, everybody gets it from time to time. its caused by not enough lubrication, either he didn't turn you on enough to start with or you didn't produce enough. this could be because you are on the pill because that affects it, or you didn't drink enough or you are on other sorts of medication etc.next time try an extra lubricated condom, or just use some other lubricant (not vaseline with a condom coz it'll split) and get him to slow it down. if it happens again by all means go to your doctor for more advice but there is nothing wrong so don't freak out.
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reader, AnnaLeigh +, writes (29 October 2009):
 Hello, this sounds like it is bothering you. If it's bothering you alot you should tell your mom you need to see the doctor for a yeast infection or something like that...you can think of something and then tell the doctor what happened. You don't need to tell your mother everything about your vagina... don't be shy to tell the doctor they are used to stuff like this all the time. All the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2009): STD
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reader, quiet-echo  + ♥, writes (29 October 2009):
 It sounds like friction burn if it only happens after intercourse. You may not be sufficiently lubricated before penetration.
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reader, Sammycake + ♥, writes (29 October 2009):
 It might be a case of there just wasn't enough natural lubricant for it to feel totally comfortable. During sex, there's a lot of friction, and in such a tender place it'll get inflamed if that's the case. Try buying a water-based lubricant for next time, and indulge yourself in a little more foreplay than usual to make sure you're totally ready.
If the problem doesn't go away in a couple of days, or any other problems arise, you should go and get checked out by your doctor to be on the safe side.
All the best,
Sammy.
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reader, rhythmandblues2  + ♥, writes (29 October 2009):
 If you are concerned, go see a doctor. Your mom will not go mental. She is after all an adult...are you? If you are adult enough to have sex, then you are adult enough to take care of your body by seeing a doctor to get your answers to bodily functions and problems.
I don't know what is wrong with your vagina, can't see it, don't wanna see it and I am sitting here at my computer as every other aunt on this site is as well.
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