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Archived questions from: 12 August, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

How can I tell if he wants to have sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriend always makes comments such as "lets have sex" but he only ever txts them so i dunno if he is being serious or not. How can i tell if he really want to have sex? As he is the shy type that wouldnt ever dream of saying it to my face and i ...

I have an inverted nipple and I want to honestly know if this is a turn off.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - Hi...another one for the men I'm in my early 20's and have yet to have sex...mainly because i have an inverted nipple and feel like i would be a turnoff. I'm not the kind of person to settle down and start being serious yet (nor am i one for one...

3 SUMS, and spiceing up the SEX!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - dear aunts and uncles, i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years and i just told him i wanted a 3 some but i dont want any1 anyround my area(living)i live in a very small town and i dont want it to get around.how do i go about ...

I slept with a married man who really seemed to like me. Now he says it won't happen again and not to tell anyone.help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - hi im a 30 year old female and been friends with a 30 year old male for about 3 years we talk on the net and hes always liked chatting me up we both have 2 children and hes married.when i went round a week ago we ended up having sex.and turns round ...

I am 14, he is 18. Should I date him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - dear cupid well im seein this guy ive known for a long time now and he is understanding and he would never pressure me to have sex he told me he wud wait for me when im ready but thats the thing im 14 and he iz 18 and he iz realy nice but i dont ...

I masterbate and look at porn, even gay porn!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

12 August 2008 (M) - hey ! im a 16 year old guy. i still masturbate almost everyday, and look at porn frequently. sometimes male porn, but im totaly straight! is there something wrong!...

I have never even kissed a girl, let alone lost my virginity ~ and I am 28!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

12 August 2008 (M) - VIRGIN AT AGE 28! I NEED ADVICE! Hi, I am a 28 year old male VIRGIN. I have never had sexual intercourse with the opposite sex; no girlfriends or sexual relationships. I dare not tell anybody of my personal situation- the humiliation and r...

Why don't I make noise during sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - So my boyfriend and I first had sex about a month ago. I was a virgin, and he wasnt sure if he was or not. (he woke up at a party naked next to a naked girl) But anyways, neither of us make any noise during sex, other than the heavy breathing....

Is it ok to offer him fellatio before sex, how will this influence actual sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - Is it OK to give the guy a blowjob before you have sex, will he still have enough cum? Or should you just have sex with him and not make him come beforehand?...

I don't remember if we had sex but I noticed a strange smell afterwards - is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - hi,im so confused at the moment. i went to a party a week ago, and i did stuff with a guy but dont actually know if we had sex. but i really smelt a smell ive never smelt before as im 16 and never had sex before. and the smell lasted quite a ...

I have a great boyfriend, but I keep wanting to be with other men for sex, is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend on and off for 3 years. he's a great bloke who treats me like a queen, is faithful and great looking, but i keep wanting to be with other men for sex, is this normal? Does this mean i have to end it with him? Should...

Will the plan b work? I'm nervous, but I wouldn't mind having a baby.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - So I had unprotected sex on my most fertile day, and again the next two days, and then I took the morning after pill. I want to know what are the chances of me being pregnant? Will the plan b work? I'm nervous, but I wouldn't mind having a baby....

LOL!!... Sorry, I sound really pathetic, but seriously, I have no idea how you do it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - Hi, I've been with this lad quite a while now and were really comfortable with each other. Recently we've been doing alot more things, like hand jobs and stuff. He asked me if i'd want to suck him off and i said yeah, but not today. I know wh...

The first time he penetrated me I never bled, so now I'm scared he's going to think I was faking my virginity.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - Hi there! I've been with this guy for about a year and everything seems right. I was with him a couple of weeks back and we were discovering each other. He didnt go inside me, but by the time we finished, i was on my way home i was bleeding...

I am having trouble getting over her past. Help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

12 August 2008 (M) - My girlfriend has a sexual past, as do I. But for some reason hers bothers and haunts me. She's lived a much different life than me. She just got divorced about 2 years ago, and has been with 5 guys since. My mind can't stop picturing her past, It ...

How do you keep your man sexually interested so he does not wander "too much"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I want to know how do you keep your man sexually interested in you in the bedroom so he doesn't wander too much...

I think I'm ready for sex but part of me is thinking I'm too young... am I?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I'm 12 years old and have been thinking about sex for a couple of weeks and i really want to try it and no i'm not a slut/slag or whatever you want to call it so my boyfriend who is 3 years older(been with him for a year and totally in love ...

Are there exercises or food to improve the hardness of my bits?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

12 August 2008 (M) - Hi well i have a problem so here goes: I have a over average sizd penis at around 8inches but i read that this makes it harder to get up... and well it does, i do allright but it could be better on few occasions when its been rock hard its reached...

My wife was diagnosed with cervicitis -any sex advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

12 August 2008 (M) - My wife was diagnosed with cervicitis and advised not to have intercourse. I was just wondering if that includes oral sex as well and if the cervicitis will worsen if she has an orgasm....

How do you know how long you'll last in bed?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

12 August 2008 (M) - well im 14 and i still havent went through full puberty. ( i got pubes and the parts are beggining to grow) so how can i know i can last in sexual intercourse? i mean i want to know because i dont want to last 5 minutes with my 1st time. sincerly ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - My fantasy has always been to have a threesome with two guys. The thought of pleasuring 2 penises always turned me on. Well, my bf and I finally followed through with it with mutual friend. Unfortunately, I didn't enjoy it like I thought I would. ...

Am I getting too intimate with my cousin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

12 August 2008 (M) - My cousin is 15 years old and I am 16 and she moved right by me about 2 years ago. Ever since I always have an urge to have sex with her are just even fool around. I know its weird, and I am not a mentaly challenged person . We always flirt ...

I have accepted the fact that I am gay, recently, all I think about is sex, but how do I approach a guy, without being awkward, please help me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

12 August 2008 (M) - im 15 and im gay. It took me a while to accept it but i finally have. Latley all ive been thinking about is having sex. I really want to be with someone but i dont know what to say to a guy without feeling awkard. please help me!...

We had anal sex, and I hurt her, now she is too afraid to try it again, how do I regain her trust and assure her that I will not hurt her again, if we have anal sex??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

12 August 2008 (M) - How do i earn my fiances trust to do anal again? My fiance always loved it when i toyed with her from behind, and when we finnially did anal it went well and she loved it but i accidentally went to deep and hurt her. I felt absolutely terrible that ...

My sister probably seduced my fiancee, which may have caused him to have a breakdown, he is being treated, he also has an aclohol problem, I love him, I think he loves me, he wants to work this out, should I try to mend the relationship or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - My fiance just told me he cheated on me with my older sister. I have been betryed by 2 people I loved and trusted. She wont admit it but he told me the truth. He had a brakdown after that and is in couseling at a hospital right now. He also has...

Are there any other couples still using condoms after getting married?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - My husband and I are married less than a year and we're still using condoms just to play safe. We've tried without once or twice but are too scared. Just want to know if there are any couples who are still using condoms after getting married. Or...

I can't fulfill my girlfriends needs, and it's bringing my self confidence down. Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5743 days ago

12 August 2008 (M) - well im 16, i need help greatly evrytime i go to have sex with my girlfreind my errection doesnt come iv attempeted 3 times with her. the 1st time, my penis wouldnt come errect. The second i was drunk with her. it would get errect but it hurt her...

We need help, our relationship is getting damaged.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - i need help, my relashionship is getting damage ,it has been 2years of engagement, and from 1st i told my fiance not to have sex till marriage, and he apreciate my idea. but now he reached his limits. And now his health geting damaged and he is ...

I'm only 14 and my friends's are saying it's uncool to be a virgin, so I'm hoping someone will help me please.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I really like this boy, his names jack, and people keep telling me to ask him out. But im really nervious and i dont know what to do. My friends keep telling me to have sex with him and go on from there, but the thing is im only 14. and im stil...