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Archived questions from: 6 August, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Sex is great but I can't 'go' - Help?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - Me and my partner sexual realationship is Active!I can't 'go' at all but tho it is great sex, what should i do? And could you still become pregnant in way its just him that 'goes'?...

He has reluctantly agreed to an STI test, but seems to be very annoyed at me. How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - Hi, Me and my boyfriend have been together almost a year, I am 19 he is 26. we usually use condoms and i am on the pill. recently we were talking about sti testing and he told me he has never ever been tested. I was alarmed by this as i have alw...

He fingered me - Am I still a virgin?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - ok...so i am 16...and i kinda went a lil 2 far 1 nite with my boyfriend. i gave him a blowjob and he fingered me...but thats all we did. it has been on my mind 4 a few weeks....am i still a virgin?...

My girlfriend has never had an orgasm in her entire life! Could it be that some people just don't orgasm at all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 August 2008 (M) - My girlfriend has never had an orgasm.. Not just with me, but ever in her life. I have had multiple sexual partners in my past and I never had a problem giving those girls an orgasm, my girlfriend has also had multiple sexual partners in the past...

It's strong smelling. Is it squirting? Do I need to see a doctor?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - Dear aunts, im 16, 17 in 19 days, legal age and i do feel ready, but my boyfriend and I have decided to wait till his 18th till we try anything, we're both virgins too. But my problem is, since we both havnt done anything before ive been exploring ...

I need some support - I had and ended an affair which I regret. Its ending violently.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - This is really hard for me, i know most of the answers i am going to get, but i was seeing this married man for 2 years im 21 he is 35. he has wife with a baby on the way....i am not a heartless person i always felt bad, but circumstances in my life ...

I'm dating an unsuccessful older man, but I ask myself, what could I possibly be attracted to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - I recently started dating an older, divorced man with two young children. I am a young career oriented sucessful women and he is a little less then ambitious older men. I ask myself what could i possibly be attracted to? Yes the sex is great but ...

I know she loves me, but the lack of intimacy is eating at me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

6 August 2008 (M) - My story is way too long so I will do all I can to exercise brevity as much as possible. My wife and I where married for 24 years before she decided that life for her was horrible and always has been, she just didn't know it until a counselo...

We are both virgins. How can I approach the topic of sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and are in love. I'm starting to think about having sex, problem is, this is the first serious relationship I've been in, same with him, so we're both pretty shy. (We're nearly 18) I was just won...

How can I interpret our friends with benefits situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - Hello all! Thank you for taking the time to read this... I am very close to one of my guy friends. We see each other almost everyday, and we enjoy each other's company. A few weeks back, though, we slept with each other, and have been doing so ever ...

He ejaculated pretty quickly... is that a bad thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - I've been with my current boyfriend for a number of months and we are very much in love with eachother. Recently, we have started "doing stuff" and I gave him a wank. He came after a very short period of time and commented on how fast it was. I r...

We lost our virginities to one another, but she has an STD and I don't...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

6 August 2008 (?) - Hey Me and my girlfriend both lost our virginity to eachother. Then the other day she told me that she has an STI with is not the Human Immuno Virus. I have been to the doctors and i am free from STI's and in perfect health. So i am wonde...

Is it better to be loved and not wanted or desired?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - My original question, just notating it here,since i now have an account: Question: Is it a good thing to have a man who loves you but does not always want you? I am a newly wed woman, married for just one year. ...

Why does my live in boyfriend choose to masturbate to porn??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5749 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both 38yrs old, we have been living together with our daughter for the past year. When we started to live together we made love regularly now a year later, weeks go by without us having sex. I have caught him masturbating ...

We've been married for 18 months and she's still a virgin! What can I do?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

6 August 2008 (M) - Hi, I have been married since March '07 (nearly 18 months ago), I love my wife to pieces but am extremely stuck on this. She was a virgin when we started going out, but the problem is she is still a virgin now. We've been together since '03, and...

I can't help but feel insecure and inadequate. I keep comparing myself to her.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - There's this guy I've known for a long time. We were going to pursue a relationship. The problem is he has a high sex drive and I'm a virgin at 22. He's alot older and he's 28. The fact I'm a virgin - it's a issue to him. I want to take my time and ...

Did I ruin my chances by sleeping with him too soon?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - I met this guy who's 24, im 21. he is such good fun and we get on so well, the only problem is i slept with him second time i met him. I have seen him twice after this just to meet for drinks. He texts me most days or calls. But he hasnt asked me ...

Please can someone help me get him out of my life?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - Please please can someone help me. I am married and have been having an affair for 3 years with a man who is in a relationship. Both he and his partner tell me that it is sexless. The physical side of our relationship has always been very very good...

What are these red dots on my breast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - Hi all! Ok my question is a bit embarrassing so please don't be put off about it, thanks. Ok well yesterday i met up with my sort of boyfriend (it's complicated) and we were "sexually active" together. We didn't actually have sex but we were more...

PLEASE how do I get this MM out of my life, my head and my body.?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - Iam married and have been having an affair for 3 years with someone who is in a relationship. We had very very good sex,his sex life with his partner was almost non-existant (she told me that too). He always said that I was important etc,although ...

My ex only contacts me for sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5750 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - my ex and i were never sexually active but always wanted to be. we were together for a while and the conversation was always up. now that we are no longer together, he has finally been intimate with another girl. though we are not together he ...

Did I fall in love with a slut without knowing it?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4132 days ago

6 August 2008 (M) - Alright, My girlfriend and I sort of met one night while we were both out drinking, we ended up having sex that night, either of us knew anything about each other really more than our names. Yes, a one night stand. We both were extremely dr...

What do you like women to do during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - I have a question for the guys out there. What is it that you like for a woman to do during sex? I sometimes feel a little bit lost and not quite sure what I should do. Any suggestions would be most appreciated! Thank you....

He wants to know my fantasies... but they are SO dirty, I don't think he could handle it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriend wants me to tell him my fantasies, but I'm so nervous. Some of them are really DIRTY. For example, I have rape fantasies, one of the most common I know, but kind of hard to explain. Especially since I want it rough. Not just him taking ...

I kissed someone new recently and was incredibly turned on. I've never felt this before, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5750 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - I recently kissed someone new for the first time. It was an incredible experience, but I am a little confused. I felt extremely turned on sexually and very connected. I have kissed others before, but never have I felt like this. Why would this be so ...

Was he trying to be in control?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5750 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - When i was with my ex, if we got into an argument, right after he would want to have sex, and the way he liked it. it felt like he was trying to be in control or something. what do u think?...

I would still like some advice as to how I can reduce my urges to a minimum.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

6 August 2008 (M) - I'm 18 years old and i'm very much in love with my girlfriend, she means the world to me.. But i feel like my sexual urges are getting in the way and i don't want her to start thinking i'm something that i'm not. My urges aren't all that bad real...

Was phone sex with this other guy classed as cheating...should I tell my bf?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - im a girl and in a long distance relationship and i was very happy. but lately i havent been. he doesnt call me, we hardly talk, me msgs me bout once a day saying the same things. he is hardly online now and i never really get to see him for real. ...

Shouldn't sex be a bigger deal to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - Not sure if this is worth worrying about but any comments will be apreciated thanks. I lost my virginity about a week ago, it felt like nothing special, i had been with my boyfriend about 3months and it just happened spare of the moment but i do ...

Please don't make any of the answers "You are too young to be thinking about this", as I'm not going to be participating in the act. I am simply curious.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - Okay, let me just stress that NONE OF THESE QUESTIONS ARE THINGS I AM GOING TO DO! Please don't make any of the answers "You are too young to be thinking about this", as I'm not going to be participating in the act. I am simply curious. There are ...

What's going on? Is it the pills? Are they working? Can I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - Very worried at this point... well me and a sex partner are having sex and I just got on birth control pills a month ago, and I got my period for one week, and then for another week when I started a new package my period disappeard, what's going on? ...

He confessed that he got me pregnant on purpose and lied that he couldn't have kids ~ because he wanted us to stay together.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - Hello...I've been seeing a guy for about 3months. I was falling in love with him. He came at the right time in my life when i was ready for a real relationship. He was married for 7yrs and told me he couldn't have kids. He pressured me for sex ...

After we had sex last night, there was alot of blood, and quite frankly, I'm terrified!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - I'm not sure how to put this, but it's weighing on my mind a lot. I had sex with my boyfriend last night, and when we were finished, I looked down, and I was bleeding from my vagina. Not even just a little, a LOT. And it didn't look like mens...

Does having a lot of sex affect the relationship or our love??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - I have been in a relation for above 2 years and also have sex relationship. I really wanted to know does having a lot of sex affect the relationship or our love?? If yes, what should be done to make the relationship strong?...

He's gone from being an incredibly motivated, funny, caring person to being the most selfish, angry person I know.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - A bit of history. My boyfriend and I have been together over 2 years. When we first met I was living with my former boyfriend who was an alcoholic. It was a very unhealthy relationship to put it mildly. My current boyfriend and I met and beca...

I know it's wrong, but I'm sleeping with both my boyfriend and his older brother!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - right, im really just lookin for abit of advice, i already know what im doing is very very wrong and i do feel guilty about it.. im a 16 year old girl living in a small village in the uk, i went to an all girls school and as i live in a small plac...