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Sex: Help and advice

He has not initiated sex in the last 11 years! He likes looking at and talking to other women.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

5 August 2008 (F) - My husband is fond of looking at other women.And he is also interested in talking for hours with other women.Neither of which he does with me.He is not at all interested in having sex with me .There is no one single time that he had asked for sex ...

His threesomes and foursome in the past bother me, now I feel like I am not what he wants, especially if he brought home a girl for me to be with. !

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

5 August 2008 (F) - I really hope someone can help me. I have been married for 2 years. Been together 5. My first marrage. He has been married two times before me and I being his 3rd - all I got was the court house. I am 33 and he is 47. When we started seriousl...

I'm nearly 30 and still I don't feel ready for sex. What's going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

5 August 2008 (M) - I need to gauge some opinions here please aunties. I'm nearly 30, single, and still a virgin; but this isn't what bothers me, it's the fact that I don't feel ready for sex yet. I have no drive for sex. I see people posting questions on here...

I need some advice about having sex for the first time.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

5 August 2008 (F) - Can anyone tell me about their 'first time' at sex? I've been with my boyfriend 3 weeks so i'm not thinking about it soon, i just want to be prepared. I've 'dry humped' before and my last partner tried to finger me but i felt uncomfortable so...

Is sex between siblings incest?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

5 August 2008 (M) - Hi, I am a student of human psychology. I have a question. Is sex between siblings incest? I mean I have read it somewhere that it happens more often than we think. Has anybody had sex with their own brother or sister?...

What noises should I make during sex??

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

5 August 2008 (F) - well im going to be losing my virginity soon as me and my boyfriend are ready for sex. but im really worried about how itll feel like but most of all what kind of noises to make. i mean, just soft moans or screams? what should i be saying?? what do ...

How can I deal with and get over all of this??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

5 August 2008 (F) - Hello! I've been in a relationship for 4,5 years and it was the love of my life. Apart from great sex we could talk and hug for hours and were helping and supporting each other. We had problems... but I believed our love can make up for it. I wa...

Was my wife really a virgin, if she almost had complete intercourse, but not quite?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

5 August 2008 (M) - I've never obsessed over my wive's past before. She was a virgin (so she said) when we got engaged and moved in together. I knew of a few past boyfriends where they did some 'heavy petting', but that's it. This past weekend, we had a romantic n...

I slept with my ex and now I am very confused, don't want him to think I only want sex, I think I still love him, how should I go about fixing this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

5 August 2008 (F) - I slept with my ex and now im confused again about us. I dont know if I want something more than that or whether it was a mistake. We are always in contact since we broke up but now im afraid he'll think im a sex mad girl who is just after one ...

Could she be pregnant?? I didn't orgasm inside her...I'm really scared for her...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

5 August 2008 (M) - hey im in such an emotional nd very scary time my gf nd i were havin oral sex we den kinda had sex however i was only in her three time i did not örgasm inside her so i dnt know whats goin on shes very late in her period can she be pregnant ...

Is being this horny, all the time....normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

5 August 2008 (M) - ok I'm 15 and I'm always horny. Whenever i get an erection and I'm alone i tend to masturbate and its quite annoying because if i dont masturbate then I'm very horny through out the day..is there anything that i can do too not be as horny? Or is ...

Did I hurt his feelings, by telling him, that we both need to wait before having sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

5 August 2008 (F) - Ok so I've been with my boyfriend for over a month now and we are very close. We can talk about anything without awkwardness or embarrassment. Just a few days ago however, we were at his house and his family was out. So we were kissing and getting ...

I'm 13 and scared that I might be pregnant...I know I shouldn't had sex...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

5 August 2008 (F) - help,im a 13 year old girl,i no i shouldn't of had sex but i did, and i just hate my self for it , me and my boyfriend had sex on the 15th of july ,and i was due on my period on the 27th of july but have'nt come on and i no im not late because i ...

Everytime my bf touches my clit it gets sore and inflamed...why is this??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

5 August 2008 (F) - Heya Im really worried, everytime my boyfriends pokes me my clit and surroundings get sore and inflamed!! Why is this? it hurts for about a day after. Ahhhh!Please help me! Thankyou!!!...

Pain while urinating since I first slept with my boyfriend (I wasn't a virgin) - what to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

5 August 2008 (F) - I slept with my boyfriend of 2 years on friday 1st august. It wasnt my first time. But since then when i go to the toilet it hurts a bit whilst i pee, is this normal? i dont no what to do, and i dont want to tell my mum about it. I dont want to go ...

We're both ready mentally, but can't psycally have sex. She says the pain is too much...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

5 August 2008 (M) - Hello, so this has been troubling me and my girlfriend for some time now. I have had sex with one girl before. and she's a virgin. We're both 16, and have been dating for a half year now, and we just can't have sex. When we were dating for 2 mon...

My bf seems to have issues with my sexuality what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

5 August 2008 (F) - Hi all. Normally I can usually use reason and level-headed thinking when I talk to my boyfriend, but at this point I'm not sure what to do. Straight out- I'm bisexual. I know this (duh), my close friends know this, my boyfriends know this. ...

Is anal sex always painful?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

5 August 2008 (F) - My husband and I have a great sex life, however in the 4 years that I've known we've only had anal intercourse, successfully, twice. I consider myself sexually adventurous, but I am absolutely terrified about this for 2 reasons. M husband is VERY ...

Lately hes been distant, doesn't seem to care about anything, and can have a huge attitude with me -what's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

5 August 2008 (F) - i am 18 ,my boyfriend is 16. weve been together 3 1/2 months. i love him alot.it was good at the beginning. i cheated on him a month ago, he choose to stay with me and said he still loves me, and he forgives me. lately hes been distant, doesnt seem ...

Blood in my underwear after sex, but not my period???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5750 days ago

5 August 2008 (F) - ive had sex before but the last time i did i had little drops of blood in my underwear. this has only happened once and im not on my period. is this normal? what should i think?...

Can you lose your virginity masturbating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

5 August 2008 (F) - I only have this question, does masturbation take your virginity?...

My man has erctile dysfunction, any tips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

5 August 2008 (F) - My man is 49 he can not stay hard for more than a minute...

Can a girl get pregnant with the withdrawal method?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

5 August 2008 (F) - Hi! I recently had sex with an older guy. I know pulling out is not good so we used a condom. Can a girl get pregnant if he takes it off at the end and lets his sperm out on her stomach? This is what he did with me. I'm pretty sure none of it got in ...

We are teenagers, we are in love, and we want to have sex, would someone please give us a few tips about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

5 August 2008 (M) - hi i am 14 and my gf is 16. we r in love. we both want to have sex. r there any tips out there plz. thank u...

He wants to have sex, I want to wait until I marry, he said he will wait as well, I am wondering if his desires should take precedent over mine, will he dump me because of this, please help me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

5 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 2 yrs..we have talked about sex...i told him i want to wait until i am married...he said that he will wait with me then...but i can tell he wants to but i am only 16 and i don't. I want my first time to ...

He want's me to have sex with others as he watches:

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

5 August 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been dating the same guy for 3 years. Over all it's been fantastic and unlike many of girlfriends I feel sexually I have it made! He's a great lover in "size", caring and making sure that I stay sexually satisfied. I'm so into him...

My problem is, that my mouth is too small to successfully give me boyfriend oral sex, is there any answer to this problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

5 August 2008 (F) - Hello everyone, The problem I am having is a first for me, so I'm stumped. My new boyfriend, while not large in stature, is well-endowed. I happen to be on the smaller size in stature. Our problem is not with intercourse, but with oral sex. ...

My sometime boyfriend, is a serial cheater, but I like him, should I waste my time being with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

5 August 2008 (F) - Is this guy worth my time? This guy i like and have known for over a year can be described like this. He is very smart and mysterious, but has a charm about him. Last summer, he broke up with his girlfriend and then started seeing me. All the time...

He doesn't know I love him. What should I do? He has a girlfriend.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

5 August 2008 (F) - I am love with my friend and i dont know how to tell him. we already have a sexual relationship, but he has a girlfriend. What should i do about this? i am single and we have been seeing each other for about 3 years....

Is it weird that I fantasize about my best friends cousin who I don't 'like'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

5 August 2008 (M) - Hey. I liked this girl in primary/junior school for about two years. It just so happens that I became best friends with her cousin (a boy) by pure coinsidence a few years back and still are. Now, I stayed around his house last night where she also ...

Will I ever have good sex ever again? None of my other lovers have stacked up to him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

5 August 2008 (F) - Can I ever have really good sex again? I had sex with a younger guy I was 29 he was 18 and we would have wild sex for 2 or 3 hours each night. It was the most physical connection I ever felt with a man but we weren't dating. Just having sex ever...

Am I still a virgin after like 'semi' sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

5 August 2008 (F) - me an my boyfriend had like semi sex, he didnt get far really, but he was in far enough to break my hymen. am i still a virgin?...

I'm 13 years old, going to have sex for the first time. What position is best?

This question has 56 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

5 August 2008 (F) - I am 13 and me and My And My Boyfriend have been together for nearly 3 months now and i no he wants too have sex and so do i but i am a virgin so he will be my first. i am really scared.! What position is best for the first time? Everyone says ...