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I don't remember if we had sex but I noticed a strange smell afterwards - is this normal?

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Question - (12 August 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 13 August 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi,im so confused at the moment.

i went to a party a week ago,

and i did stuff with a guy but dont actually know if we had sex.

but i really smelt a smell ive never smelt before as im 16 and never had sex before.

and the smell lasted quite a few days.

so i could be pregnant.

but i cant take a test as this happened half way between my cycle.

is that a likely time you can get pregnant?

i havnt had any signs yet.

part from i have a cold and a bad cough.

i just hate the waiting.

i just want to know if you think i had sex and could be pregnant?

coz would that smell be normal if we didnt?

please help me!

i have no-one else too help me cause i cant speak too my friends or family and i think its too soon to go to the doctar.

what do you think?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2008):

The middle of your cycle, about half way between periods, is your most fertile time. Go get yourself a pregnancy test, or wait to see if you miss your period.

Please be more careful, you are living dangerously..this time it was but one guy, the next time you could be passed around to five guys......honestly 70% of rapes are acqaintence rape (someone you know) You may think you know someone, but obviously this guy shouldn't have had sex with you if you were in this bad of shape, so you couldn't trust him!

Take care of yourself.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2008):

That bleachy smell of ejaculate (cum) can linger for a few days, I think. I may be completely odorless, but I find it smells like dry bleach. Also, after sex the combination of sweat, your fluids, and his ejaculate make for the 'badissy' smell. Urban dictionary it if you must. However, most of the smell should be removed by soap and water. Once again, ejaculate can linger in the vagina (alive and/or dead) for several days. That's why you shouldn't have sex within five days of a pap-smear! You may be pregnant, you may not be. Wait a few more days and buy a test.

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A female reader, PsyCookie United States +, writes (12 August 2008):

PsyCookie agony auntWe're not a cam recorder nor a pregnancy test, so we can't really tell you if you had sex or if you're pregnant by just a sniff.

So if you aren't sure, go up to the pharmacy and buy a pregnancy test (or wherever they sell them on England). It's better to spend some money and be sure than just keep on guessing and stressing over it.

And like Uncle Phil said, it probably would help if you described the smell the best way you can. But in the end, I really don't think it would help at all. Although I have been in rooms that "smelled" like someone had sex in it, it doesn't mean you would smell like it too.

Now next time when you're in a party, try to regulate your drinking and check your drinks as well. If you don't want this to happen again, then you better wise up.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008):

I think what we need here is a scratch 'n sniff card to get some idea as to what the smell smelled of! Where did the smell come from?

Try to describe it if you can.

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A female reader, Confused4 United States +, writes (12 August 2008):

I am not sure how you do not know if you had sex? However if you have an odor down there which may mean that he ejaculated in you. Most the time it is odorless, but sometimes it can have an odor. Did you not use a condom?

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