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I masterbate and look at porn, even gay porn!

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Question - (12 August 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 2 March 2009)
A male South Africa age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey ! im a 16 year old guy. i still masturbate almost everyday, and look at porn frequently. sometimes male porn, but im totaly straight! is there something wrong!

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A male reader, Tomas United States +, writes (2 March 2009):

I agree with both basic points here:

1) What you enjoy looking at does not sexually define you, and most people have broader interests/fantasies than they have any desire to pursue in real life, and

2) Our minds are somewhat plastic, and sustained attention can reinforce ideas. In that way our sexualities are somewhat plastic, and we can choose what we make more or less erotic, training our sexual imagination.

So if the idea of being turned on by all kinds of things is cool with you, relax. But if the idea of being even slightly aroused by a male body is disturbing to you, maybe avoid nonstop gay porn. I expect girls would be just as pretty, but fit naked guys in the gym showers might be awkward.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009):

The more you watch gay porn the more you'll want to get it on with a guy its a bad idea if you don't wont to go down that path that is.I'd say stop watching it unless you want to get cozy with the thought of being with a guy.Witch will happen if it hasnt already came to mind.

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A male reader, previasc96 United States +, writes (13 August 2008):

Sex is sex. it's all about pleasure. unless you masturbate in complete darkness, you are odviously not turned off by a hard penis, right? Getting yourself off to porn that may be considered gay is your own business. Just don't tell the girl you like about it, or your friends either.

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A female reader, Spiffeh.. United Kingdom +, writes (12 August 2008):

Spiffeh.. agony auntNo its perfectly normal to be curious at your age. There would be something wrong if it was animals or relatives you were watching! Its probably just a passing phase your going through =] x

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A male reader, fcukup Canada +, writes (12 August 2008):

you might be by sexual, as a man i can say ive never watched gay porn by choice, and it would prity much kill my bonner if i saw it, but then again i might be super straight. if you are 100% sure you like women then theres no worrys, i can advise u if you wanna watch gay porn thats 1 thing, but dont go telling anyone irl, dont have sex with men unless you want to be gay cause once u go down that road you cant go back even if you say to yourself "well that wasent fun at all and i never want to do it again" because you will kinda be disgusted and might not forgive urself, and may need therapy. ya dig?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008):

No there is nothing wrong with masterbating everyday, I rather be happy and materbate. I once went like almost a week without doing it, and I was super cranky, just pissed off all the time,very bad experience for me,just be yourself, and gay porn is nothing to be ashamed of, I'm straight, and I too like gay porn, nothing wrong there, I have always liked it, and I don't care, as long as masterbation feels good, you should try going to

(www.jackinworld.com)and trust me, you will always have somthing to do. best of luck.....

DocDell

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A female reader, SuperSammie United Kingdom +, writes (12 August 2008):

SuperSammie agony auntno nothings wrong at all.

I'm a straight girl n i enjoy looking at gay porn (gay men or woman)

i dont think anythings wrong with it, cause its still a turn on as its still sexual activities.

x

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