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Archived questions from: 7 August, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I'm so scared that I don't look right "down there".

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 471 days ago

7 August 2008 (F) - So I'm in a relationship right now and it's likely that I'm going to engage in intercourse in the near future. My problem is that I'm panicking about my appearance down there... I mean, what do guys expect? I'm scared that I'll have done something ...

My girlfriend broke up with me because she said I'm no good in bed.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 470 days ago

7 August 2008 (?) - Hey i am a 15 year old male. I recently lost my virginity to a girl who i love she is 3 years older than me, we were going out at the time. She recently broke up with me saying that because i was so bad in bed she ahd to go somewhere else for...

Should we be less rough with sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

7 August 2008 (F) - hey, well I recently started having sex and i thought because i'm not use to it that's why i get soar but last time i realised that it was more than a bruise and i tore the rim of my vagina and i realised that's what it was the other times.. so ...

I really want to improve my sex life with my girlfriend...its all getting a bit repetitive!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 472 days ago

7 August 2008 (M) - Hey I have a bit of a problem. I really want to improve my sex life, with my girlfriend! We used to have really passionate sex, and I loved it. Now though, it seems like we're just doing the same things, and it's hard to introduce new th...

My bf fingers me..but the tissue around my vaginal opening has turned black and blue...what is it??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

7 August 2008 (F) - my boyfriend fingers me and i really enjoy it.things were fine but recently i noticed that the tussue around my vaginal opening turned blue black.is it sumthing 2 worry about or is it just bruising from him bein too rough?...

Could I be pregnant...I've taken two test...both negative!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 473 days ago

7 August 2008 (F) - I've always had a normal period every month. Me and my husband have sex on the weekend of July 25th. I was supposed to get my period on August 1st. I took 2 pregnancy tests and they came out negative but I still haven't gotten my period. I have ...

I can't orgasm through penetrative sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

7 August 2008 (F) - hope someone can help, i can't seem to orgasam during penetrative sex?i can orgasam through clitoral stimulation (from myself or my bf)but just not when having sex with my bf?? can anyone suggest any advice please??...

Every time I meet him, there's an awkward silence... and then sex. What do I SAY to him?!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

7 August 2008 (F) - Me and this guy have known each other for a year. We started off on the relationship side of things, which later turned to friendship as things weren't working out the way we planned. We meet up every couple of months, but everytime we do, ther...

I got really drunk and I think I had sex but I don't remember. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

7 August 2008 (F) - I got really drunk at a friends house with a bunch of people I go to school with. I think I had sex with someone and don't remember it. I woke up without my panties on and there was a cum stain on the front of my shirt, like where a guy might have ...

My boyfriend can't orgasm. He used to be fine, but not now. What could be the reason?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

7 August 2008 (F) - hi, well me and my boyfriend have been together for a while now, and we have great sex. there has never been a problem with him being able to cum. but now out of nowwhere the last two times we have had sex, he has not been able to cum. not even when ...

I've advertised myself on a porn site - I feel dirty!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

7 August 2008 (F) - i have posted myself on a porn website and now i feel dirty and dont know what to do?...

Are we going out or just friends - Sorry its long, but please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 472 days ago

7 August 2008 (M) - I have a very serious question and need your advise. 8 months ago i met this awesome girl through a friend and we hit it off from the start and ended making out the night we met. But as i said i wasnt looking for anything serious so i told her fr...

My husband prefers porn over me - Should I leave him?!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

7 August 2008 (F) - My husband acts like Mr. Perfect Christian, but he would rather masterbate to porn than have sex with me. He does it all the time and I am sick of it. I have low self-esteem, this makes it worse, should I take my daughter and leave?...

Should we have a threesome with this girl??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 470 days ago

7 August 2008 (M) - My wife and I recently went through a "rough" patch in our marriage, she basically was on the verge of leaving me because of my depression and generally feeling sorry for myself. That's all sorted out now, I'm walking on air and we are better than ...

Please help me - I've been raped and it's destroying my life!

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 405 days ago

7 August 2008 (F) - i feel so dirty! i always wanted to save my virignity for marrage, and even if i didnt wait until marrage i wanted to wait until i had settled down with the right guy and i knew i was fully comfortable! well, even though i am in quite a good ...

What is an orgasm?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 100 days ago

7 August 2008 (F) - Hi, well my question is a bit stupid but its something I really wander about. What is an orgasm? When me and my bf are making out and doing stuff he says "Oh I'll try and make you orgasm" But the thing is I dont actually know what it is! Do you...

Whenever he's single and we meet up, we always end up sleeping together... then we go back to being friends. It hurts a lot!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 472 days ago

7 August 2008 (F) - Last September I started seeing someone that I really liked. Because we didn't see each other enough, we decided to end it. Since this he has been in a relationship with another girl, and been seeing another girl, obviously not at the same tim...

My girlfriend says she can't tell when she has an orgasm

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

7 August 2008 (M) - my girlfriend told me she can't tell when she cums. i know for a fact that some girls do know when they cum. is something wrong with her? and is it normal?...

He's rubbish in bed. I'm not great either. Can anyone help?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 444 days ago

7 August 2008 (F) - ok,i know sex isnt everything, but ive been dating a guy for 6months now, and we felt ready last night to take it that step further, the only problem is, he is rubbish in bed, but im awful aswel ha ha. obviously we were both comfortable to admi...

What can I do to please my BF also during my period? We're getting bored of foreplay.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 462 days ago

7 August 2008 (F) - basically, ive been on my period for 2 (nearly 3) months and i've not been able to please my partner the way id like to. we're getting bored of foreplay and the doctor said he cant do anything about it....anyone got any advice? [Moderator's note...

I'm willing to do anything to make it as good as possible for her, any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

7 August 2008 (M) - Im a 17 yr old guy in high school, i feel like im ready to start having sex. I've already experimented with all that kind of foreplay stuff, but i havent went all the way. i want to make sure that i live up to my first girls expectations...what ...

My new boyfriend is a terrible lover. How do I improve this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

7 August 2008 (F) - Sex with my new boyfriend is not great, and even though I like him I'm about to call it quits. I am thinking of pretending like I'm completely uninterested in sex to see if that kick starts him. I hate to play games, but talking about sex with ...

My best friend and I had sex, now he is awkward around me, I think he loves me, I am not sure I feel the same. how do we move on, back to being best friends or to a more intimate relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 455 days ago

7 August 2008 (F) - I'm eighteen and my best friend and I had sex a year ago. Ever since then things have been extremely awkward between us. He is in love with me and I'm not sure about how I feel about him. Some people even think that he might be gay, but he says ...

My boyfriend gets wet when he's horny. It makes giving him oral unpleasant. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

7 August 2008 (F) - my boyfriend gets really really wet when he gets horny, almost like girls. he loves receiving head but it kinda makes me sick doing it when he gets wet in my mouth? what do i do? ...

When she moves my hand away after I'm masturbating her, does that mean she's had an orgasm?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

7 August 2008 (M) - Yo everyone, i have a... well not a problem, it's just that my girlfirend wont "cum". I dont have a problem with it, but it just seems strange. I mean, we have sex, sure, and when i come i take "it" out and start masturbating her, and she gets an o...

We cuddle up next to each other on her sofa in our underwear under the blanket, whilst her fiance's in the room, he doesn't seem to mind.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

7 August 2008 (F) - Right here's the thing... Im a girl and im in love with my best friend whose also a girl, shes engaged to a guy and they are very happy together, been together for more than 5 years. I met her at college and about 5 months down the line i started ...