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He's away at school -- normal to question my feelings?

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Question - (19 April 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 19 April 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

is it normal to have high and low feelings for my boyfriend while he is away at school?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009):

Yes, it is completely normal.

A year after my girlfriend and I started going out we had to spend a year apart. While we were apart we talked on the phone a lot. Sometimes I longed to be with her again, and sometimes I felt like she wasn't really my girlfriend anymore.

I became really close friends with another girl, and started spending a lot of time with her - we went to dances together, held hands, but never did anything more. I seriously considered braking up with my girlfriend, but could never actually do it. That was 4 years ago, and we are still together, and have been living together happily for 2 years now.

On the other hand, I think I would have also been happy with the other girl...

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