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writes:Recently my boyfriend deployed to Iraq, since he has been gone, he as been asking me for nude photos and a video. I have no problem in taking the pictures for him! My biggest problem is doing the video. How do I do one without looking like a complete idiot? I am so worried about making a fool of myself. I don't want him to laugh at me, although he tells me that I'm being a dork and to quit worrying so much, but I can't! I want it to be good. Any advice would be greatly appreciated! Reply to this Question
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reader, wonderingcat  +, writes (19 April 2009):
 I would caution you on sending you nude pictures and videos for your boyfriend right now. If you want to do this, you need to think of a few things before sending them off to him:
1 - think of 1-5-10 years from now. Will these pictures of videos put you in a difficult or compromising position then? For instance, if you became a teacher, or running for an office?
2 - once the pictures or video leaves your hands, you are no longer in control of its "distribution". Someone could (deliberately or by accident) get a hold of those nude pics or vids, and distribute them (if they are good, they could spread like wildfire). Unless you have him sign a contract not to do anything or let anything to do to let the pics/vids out.
3 - How long have you been with your boyfriend? think of poses that will be timeless, so even if things do not work out with him, you have nothing to be ashamed of your poses. Because they are classy and timeless!
Look up "fine arts" "nude pics" on the net, or go to a book shop or libraries, to get some neat ideas on classy timeless nude pics.
This link may help you to get some ideas too: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ideas-for-raunchy-pictures-for-a-calendar-for.html
Go pose now! lol Pretty soon you'll have a fan base and get lots of emails!
Cat
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