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*omo4eva77
writes:me and my best friend like the same boy. but she is not the type of girl that boys like cuz she is a bit fat and tall. but im good look and he seems like he likes me but i dont want to hurt my best frends feelings by flirting wit him or goin out wit him. wat do i do to solve this? i havent told her that i like him but i no she likes him nd a month ago i said i liked him but she thinks im over that but im not. HELP ME I NEED HELP!!! WHAT DO I DO???
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reader, momo4eva77 +, writes (1 February 2009):
momo4eva77 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all of you but i just found these out today so 2moro ima try to talk to her. thnx so much nd i hope these work. i cant stop thanking you my problem will hopefully be oner. thnx!!! :)
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reader, itsJanine  +, writes (31 January 2009):
 I was in the same situation in Grade 7, except I was in your friend's shoes. My advice to you? If you don't want to ruin a great friendship, back off from the guy and try to set your sights on somebody else. I don't think you should have a talk with her about whether or not she's okay with you dating him, because she might say yes just so she can try to be the "good best friend". It would really hurt her if you decided to date the guy, so maybe you should both agree to look from afar but hold hands with other cuties.Hope it works out :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2009): im sorry to say but go for it but speak with your friend first tell her you really like this man and tell her you are going to give it a go with him but remember friends are for life men come and go like sweets good luck hun x give me advice on my question about my kurdish man please be true to me and write how you feel
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reader, Emajayne +, writes (31 January 2009):
 I remember having this same problem with my friend when i was your age...so not that long ago but long enough for me to remember way back in the day. This guy was the focus of both our attentions and we kept battling it out saying "no u have him..no u have him!" And neitehr of us actually looked at who he wanted if he wanted eitehr of us at all. I think ur being a bit mean when it comes to ur friend though....i can see where u are coming from but still...she's ur buddy, not an enemy. She is your best friend and that should make it easier for u to talk to her about how u feel. Don't say shes slightly chubby or anything. Just tell her that u still like him and that u don't want to hurt her feelings by making the move towards being more with the guy. You also have to think whether losing ur best friend over a silly guy whos name u arent gonna remember in ten years is worth it.
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