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writes:Hi there Aunties/Uncles!So I am a Gay 20 year old male. And well I have never been in a relationship, better yet like the movie aptly titled---I have never been kissed. The people I tend to fall for, just never work out. So a while back I tried a dating site...and was messaged by a 21 year old gentleman. I had seen his profile, before and was very stoked he took interest in me because judging by his photos and his about me---i was very interested. Unfortunately, at the time he was already seeing someone. And this bummed me out a lot, because I was not too sure he liked me. Now my hetero male best friend tells me, he knows this fellow liked me judging by the fact he drove 70 miles to surprise me in my class. That night was sort of special...I almost missed him, because I didn't have my phone on me but I went to the car and called him and he turned around and we met in a parking lot. After that we went on a pseudo date...he bought me food and stared at me a lot. Though he didn't talk a lot. Once the night ended--because I have a moral code I follow---i didn't want to put him in a situation that would make him be in a bad place with his interest. However, he held his arms for a hug...and I went for it and it felt really right. Unfortunately, some months passed and the guy he was seeing at the time became his boyfriend. We friended each other on facebook---and didn't say much to each other. About a week ago I uploaded a photo and he "liked it." (A very cheesy detail--but I'd be lying if I said I didn't read much into it.). Then officially two days ago thanks to facebook---it informed me, he was now single. I don't know what to do. I don't feel I can offer him anything in particular because I am so new to love...but I know he's left a really strong imprint in me and I just don't know how to let him know---and maybe these details I described of him don't indicate he was interested. I really like him and I'd like for him to be a part of my world...any advice is very much appreciated.
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reader, AvgGuy1 +, writes (14 September 2010):
You know what... this is really simple.
Just send him a message (not on his FB Wall - but a private message)... asking him if he really is now single and if he'd be interested in dating.
If he says no, then perhaps he didn't/doesn't think you were really his type when he met you the first time... and just wants to be friends. If that's the case you're most definitely better off finding someone else who really can appreciate you.
And... even though... you might not think you have anything to offer someone... but you do. Everyone does. It's just a matter of finding the right match. So keep your head up and believe in yourself and you'll eventually find someone.
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (14 September 2010):
 go for the kill! ask him out, its your choice...
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