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What makes a guy shy?

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Question - (14 September 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 15 September 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

1. would a shy guy ring a girl and ask her out?? or hes too shy to do that??

2. what make guys shy???

3. what if you like a shy guy and you think he likes you too..but hes not making any move?? what should the girl do??

thnx..xx

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A male reader, BassiveMalls United States +, writes (15 September 2010):

BassiveMalls agony auntIf he is shy he's never gonna call. He'll always be second guessing himself.

This is the 21st century; it's not just up to the guy to ask the girl out. If you're interested ask him out... unless you're shy.

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A female reader, romany United Kingdom +, writes (15 September 2010):

romany agony auntI'm not a shy guy, but many moons ago, i was fairly shy,

1. I would not have rang guy and asked him out, I would have been far too shy.

2. I was shy coz i had no confidence, and was afraid of rejection when it came to guys.

3. If I really liked a guy, I would hope he would ask me out, coz i could never do it.

So to you I say, go for it girl, text him, call him, talk to him, and then ask him out for a coffee, ice cream or whatever he likes, keep it fluffy, dont ask for a date, and see how that goes, once he has made that connection he may find the confidence to ask to meet you again, if he doesn't, jus say, i've had a great time, can we meet again on thursday or whatever day you want.

Just be careful, they say us shy peeps are the worse. lololl ;o)

Good luck.

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A female reader, LiveAnnLearn Serbia +, writes (15 September 2010):

LiveAnnLearn agony aunt1. depending on how shy he is, being that it's a big step I'm guessing he's probably too shy to do it

2. who knows what made this particular guy of yours shy but he is so I guess you're gonna have to deal with it and yes

3. I think you should make the 1st move, it might be hard but at least you know you're superior than him in terms of being less shy:)

Good luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2010):

1. It depends on if the guy can overcome his fears. If yes then he will ring.

2. Fear of rejection is a big one for not approching girls.

3. Ask him out for a drink or something.

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