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*adAboutHim123
writes:My boyfriend of a year and 7 months has a facebook account but doesn't want me to have one. We have trust issues. Is that like fair? Is it right of him to do that? I dont talk to any of my friends anymore because of our trust issues and i think it would just be nice to look up family and if i can dig up some of my old friends too that would be awesome! I dont know i had a facebook account but becuse of his ridiculous accusations i deleted it a long time ago and havent thought about it untill he created an account and is now talking to his friends and reconnecting with people. Help?
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reader, MadAboutHim123 +, writes (6 June 2011):
MadAboutHim123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLol! As i look back on this and that entire relationship i laugh and wonder what the heck was i thinking! It sucks being lonely but i'm happier now than when i was with him! And ps i'm still on facebook and having fun reconnecting with people that actually do love and care about me! :-D thanks for the advice!
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reader, stephi23  +, writes (16 September 2010):
get back on facebook!!!!! what r u doing hunni is he hiding something from u thats why u cant go on?? tell him if hes on it ur on it deal with it!!
Alot of men do that cos they dont want to have to put there in a relationship xx
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (16 September 2010):
 I'm sorry, actually I'm not. If he break up over something like that he isn't worth a pot to piss in.
What would have been next? You can't talk to dark haired men? Or you can't wear red clothes? You can't watch HBO?
What I AM sorry about, is that you got your feelings hurt.
Ultimately, people will treat you, how you LET them treat you.
I think you need to realize that you DESERVE to be treated better then this, you DESERVE to have your own mind & ideas. You DESERVE to be loved and respected, and trusted.
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reader, MadAboutHim123 +, writes (16 September 2010):
MadAboutHim123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo, i created a facebook account and he broke up with me. I can't believe this. I guess i shouldn't be surprised. This is so stupid. I'm trying not to be upset.
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reader, CupidsPrincess +, writes (14 September 2010):
What's with FB everyone?I totally agree with Honeypie. But I have had friends whose husbands wouldn't allow online social networking at all. And I know another lady in her 30's whose husband asked her to be cautious while having an FB account. So its just that some men care. But checking your interests doesn't sound great. I wouldn't want my husband to tell me what to do or how to do with Facebook or Twitter. I am mature enough.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (14 September 2010):
I think that is really controlling. As much as I detest the whole "social networking online" I can't see why you NEED his permission to make yourself a Facebook. I don't understand why you let him dictate your life.
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