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36-40,
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writes:So, in reality I know this is wrong but it feels like so right. Well it like all started when this man moved in with my mother! Within 6 months they were engaged and he was a very considerate step dad. Then things took a weird turn, i started having feelings for him, i didnt like anyone at college but wanted to be with him, my step dad. so my mother went away for a few days and i seized my opportunity, at first i didnt think it would work, wearing less around the house etc, but he seemed to pay more attention to me, always wanting to be in the same room as me and even cooked me a 3 course dinner ( which he had never done before), then as the 2 days passed we became 'very' close, sitting on the same armchair and then we crossed the line, we like kissed! Neither of us knew what to do, but my plan had succeeded! within a few weeks, i pushed for us to go further and we did, now we want to live together alone without his soon to be wife/my mother! IS this that wrong? I started it all so should I end it?/???/? He is a lot younger than her so age don't matter. please help my natural feelings say one thing but my morals say another!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, dyeruz +, writes (7 June 2010):
Wow, and wow, good luck to you, if he's so weak he's that easy to tempt then you two will be very happy together especially since you'll probably lose your mother and your family and if this relationship breaks down who are you going to run to, the mother you betrayed? You both are selfish, you deserve each other.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2010): You don't have any morals so I'm surprised you're listening to them. You must be hearing voices.
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reader, Magbones  +, writes (7 June 2010):
You already know this would really hurt your mother if she found out. I think you should break it off mutually, so that you both understand each other and why you shouldn't stay together. Even if your mother and this man decide, for some reason, not to get married, or if they end up divorcing, I think you should still steer clear of him. Even though your feelings tell you it's the right thing to do, this could cause a lot of pain and regret later, especially for you.
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reader, Magbones +, writes (7 June 2010):
You already know this would really hurt your mother if she found out. I think you should break it off mutually, so that you both understand each other and why you shouldn't stay together. Even if your mother and this man decide, for some reason, not to get married, or if they end up divorcing, I think you should still steer clear of him. Even though your feelings tell you it's the right thing to do, this could cause a lot of pain and regret later, especially for you.
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