A
male
age
41-50,
*ohamedUK
writes:Hi,My story is very long and complicated I'll resume the main point. I was dating that woman A since high school, for 10 years. At year 8 I discovered she was cheated on me for a period of time, I forgave her because she says she chooses me on a meeting with 3 of us. She continues to keep to contact with the man. I forgave 4 times one after the other after discovering she is still in contact with the man. I don't challenge her anymore and I started dating a woman B in revenge at the end of year 9 at the same time seeing woman A won't stop her cheating. Woman A get pressure from her family about our relationship and I see woman A stop contacting the man, we decided to get engaged at the end of year 10, but woman B was still around and deep in love with me, I felt in love with her too during that time. woman A was in rush to get married, we decided to get married on year 11. Woman B discovered I was going to get married while I was moving out of her life slowly, she was really, really devastated, near suicide. I lied to her on why I was going to get married. Close to the wedding date I discovered woman A ended her cheating with the man just before the engagement with me and that cheating had last for 5 years. I was devastated and I stopped the wedding and concentrated on getting woman B back. I got her back and dating her. Woman A ends up knowing Woman B was around. One day we had a meeting, four of us, nothing was concluded. Now woman A wants to come back with me, she regrets what she did. I still have feeling for woman A. I don't know what to do. I love both, I don't want to hurt both, I want good for both. I don't know how to choose one and what to do. How do I choose one of the two women without hurting the other one feelings in such situation that happened between us?Mohamed
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reader, swordandredrose  +, writes (8 June 2010):
I hope you follow my advice. The first girl has shown you already that she doesn't deserve you. SHE HAS CHEATED ON YOU!!!! She can never be trusted. Forget about her before she ruins your entire life. Your heart has been broken by her once; don't make the same mistake twice my friend.
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reader, MohamedUK +, writes (7 June 2010):
MohamedUK is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi,
I'm 30 years old.
Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2010): How old are you?
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reader, swordandredrose +, writes (7 June 2010):
People who cheat can never be trusted. Looks like woman A is one of those people. I guarantee that she is going to cheat on you again.
I am not telling you to "choose" the other girl though. All I am telling you is not to choose the first girl.
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