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Lesbian or bisexual?

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Question - (6 June 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 February 2011)
A female Canada age 30-35, *opelessXO writes:

Okay so I recently came out to my family and friends as a lesbian. I love the idea of having a sexual and emotional relationship with a woman.

But something has been bugging me lately. When I see good looking guys I think, "oh, they're really sexy." I don't like the idea of being emotionally involved with a man but I still do find some guys to be very attractive. The idea of having sex with a man doesn't completely disgust me but I would rather hae sex with a woman.

Do these feelings towards men mean that I might be bi?

And please don't give me an answer like, "don't feel the need to label yourself". I just want to know if me being sexually, but not emotionally attracted to guys means that I might be biseuxal.

Thanks in advance.

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A female reader, natalieejanex United Kingdom +, writes (12 February 2011):

natalieejanex agony auntit could mean that you are bisexual but physicality shouldn't really change your sexuality. if you are only emotionally attracted to just women then you are most definitely a lesbian. sex and sex appeal does not determine a persons sexuality at all.

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A female reader, Tt-7 United States +, writes (29 June 2010):

Tt-7 agony auntI would say ur bi beacuse u still look at guys nd they dont disgust u...I consider myself bi because I look at girls I messed around with sum too..Even tho I have a man...But I rather have him then a girl...

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