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Attracted to taller women, where do I find them!??

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Question - (6 June 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 7 June 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My problem is I am only sexually attracted to to women taller than myself.

I have had this fetish since pre-puberty when the 'all boys' school I attended, merged with the nearby girls school.

I was about 13 years old and one of the smallest and youngest boys in the year at the time, I couldn't have been more than about 4 ft 10" to 5 feet tall.

I now know girls usually have their growth spurt a couple of years before boys but the sight of my new, sexually mature, Amazonian female class mates was a real shock to me, that I wasn't expecting. Most were only about 4 or 5 inches taller but there were a couple of girls in my new class who were a full head and shoulders taller than me and they teased me mercilessly about my size. (which kind of turned me on) I guess at 13, any female attention is good attention.

That was 8 years ago and I'm now 5ft 11" tall, but I'm finding it almost impossible to find unattached women over 6ft tall. Do you have any suggestions?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2010):

im a 6footer but i couldn't date a guy shorter than me its not the natural order of things you will probably struggle a bit at this. Find a girl whos 5.9 or 5,10 and get her some big shoes. Or just stop being such a shallow man and fins a girl with a nice personality

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (6 June 2010):

chigirl agony auntLots of tall women in Norway, and Scandinavia I assume. If you like to travel. Learn the metric system though, as we speak in cm and m. Im taller than you btw, but I am also one of the taller women here. However there are several that are taller than me!

A problem you will run into is that women in general prefer a man who is taller than them. It makes them feel less feminine if they are taller than the man. So maybe you can find someone close to your own height and they can wear heels for you? And the on the wedding photo they can wear flats so that they still look feminine...

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A male reader, Yos Netherlands +, writes (6 June 2010):

Yos agony auntThe Netherlands! The average height of Dutch women is the tallest in the World. Living here I can tell you that it sure feels that way too.

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (6 June 2010):

Jmtmj agony auntI don't think that finding them is any harder than finding girls normally. Your biggest problem is that girls generally like to be the same height as their boyfriend at a bare minimum. Ideally they want you to be taller than them by a at least a little bit... but that's just a generalization I guess.

Maybe I'm the only one, but when I see a couple which has a shorter guy and a taller girl... it just looks odd to me. Like you can tell who wears the pants in the relationship and who is the big and little spoon in bed. Have you tried joining a mixed social basketball or netball team? I know a guy who joined a netball team for the social aspect and I know he kept going back, so maybe he was having luck with the ladies? He also was quite short and ended up with a girl who had a good 10cm on him come to think of it...

Anyhoo, best of luck :)

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A female reader, EbonyBlossom United Kingdom +, writes (6 June 2010):

EbonyBlossom agony auntInstead of going for girls based on looks/height/aesthetics, look for the personality. After all, even if your girlfriend is 6'5" and turns you on, it's not gonna work if you have a personality clash! There are things that are far more important than her height. Then once you find a girl and fall head over heels for her because of who she is, then if it still turns you on, encourage her to wear mega heels!

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A male reader, antwone fisher United Kingdom +, writes (6 June 2010):

try craigslist

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