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writes:Hi.I don't know how I feel that I love my teacher.He's 32 and I'm 18. He's been married and Divorced it's not his fault though I think.He's so nice and kind and a very understanding person. I fell so sorry for him . I like him .I don't care though his older than me it's not a problem . But am I doing something wrong please help me . I can't tell this to anybody. Do u think that i should tell him that i like him ..help me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2010): Me too from india ,
And its depend on you.. You can do...
But do't do it means "woh tumhare sir hai" . Its just attraction.
If he is not making anymove. Then do't do otherwise it seems you are slut, offcourse you are not but if you do move first then he or others may think That.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (10 June 2010):
 Don't tell him. And there is a very high likelihood that you only like this man because he is your teacher and an authority figure. Would you have liked him if you met him in a different setting? This is very unclear, but as it is illegal for a student to have a relationship with their teacher, I think it is best if you move on and find someone else. He might be a very very good man, don't get me wrong, but there is just too many dilemmas and complications and laws prohibiting this relationship from happening. Not to mention this is one sided attraction as far as you know, he might not even be interested. I say it's not worth the risk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2010): i think u should give him more time to get over his devorce...i kno how love feels but even if u get together with him he will not be over his wife so give him time n space u can comfort him n let him kno ur there for him n stuff but for now i think u guys shud remain student n teacher...even tho im 13 i have alot of understanding:) n u can get another guy until the teacher is over his wife n u will kno this by the time u spend with him as a student or even friend...jus hang in there:)
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reader, loops  +, writes (10 June 2010):
Your teacher is bound by a duty of care. This means that despite you being over the age of consent it is still illegal for him to partake in any kind of relationship with you as he has a sense of authority over you. Because of this I do not think it is wise you tell him, or attempt to begin any form of relationship with him, as it is going to put him in a very uncomfortable position. He is a nice person and that's great, but he is your teacher and that's the limit to your relationship. I suggest you spend more time with your friends and seek out relationships with people who aren't in a position of authority. You are putting way too much at risk by perusing this, including his embarrassment, yours, and possibly his career.
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