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female
age
16-17,
*elper411
writes:How do I get over a guy who tried to get me in bed with him? I mean yah i hate him for it but i still like him. lol i told him afterward if he wants to get laid so bad he should crawl up a chickens butt and wait. but thats not the deal. i want to know how to get over him because i dont want to do that until im married. i have a promise ring and i dont plan on braking it. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, strongfp + ♥, writes (10 June 2010):
It's easy, just tell him you aren't ready, and you won't be ready until you feel it's right, and if he asks when you will feel right, then tell him you will feel right when you find the right man to marry.
You are young. He is young, what he has on his mind is sex, making out with girls, and having fun playing sports and video games, trust me I was a teenager once.
Serious relationships at that age are tough for a number of reasons, and one is the pressure of having sex. You have peers, and good friends talking about it all the time, and horny teenage boys talking about getting laid before highschool ends. Don't let peer pressure and media get to your head, remember losing your virginity is a special thing, it only happens once, so make sure a guy who is deserving enough can take it.
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