A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:So recently I had this gut feeling I had two years ago to check the phone bill cause my husband was acting out of the ordinary, picking fights, very distant even in the bedroom. SO I checked it to my surprise I find that he has been texting this number for the last four months over 30-80 times some days. And when I was out of town there was long night texting. He never text me that much and I have been his wife for 11 years and we havve been together for 19 years. I am very hurt, angry, disappinted. When I confronted him he said it was nothing to worry about, so I asked what was the conversations about and he said everything and would not be specific. So I monitored his phone for two weeks waiting and looking. And low and behold she starts texting again. And she is married as well. Is this considered cheating or what. We live in the same town so its very hard for me to even look at her. But I smile and move on. My husband knows how I feel I just can't get passed it this time. I think if he would come clean and tell me what the conversations were I could move on, but he won't. What to do? Lost with loving my husband and hating texting.
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reader, Boombadaboom  +, writes (11 June 2010):
 just don't tollerate this. you're a woman who deserves respect so don't let it this just go around past you. Fix it before it becomes too big. Stand your ground and don't give up
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