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writes:ahhhhh im really scared!!ive recently come out as a lesbian to my two best friends. nobody else knows. my friends really want me to be happy and know that i really want a girlfriend so are being really supportive and taking me to a gay/lesbian club tomorrow night.the problem is that im really scared about going in there. i have perceptions from tv programmes of really full on pushy girls coming up to you and people making out all over the place. i know this is probably a stupid perception but i really want to know what to expect. can anybody share their experiences with me please! i do really want to go because i need to get out there and meet people, im 22 years old and really lonely. do you think this is too much too fast??
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (11 June 2010):
 Go with a friend and bring your cell! Don't be nervous and think of it as an adventure! The TV and movies are fiction. Gay bars are a lot like straight ones! You'll be having a blast in no time!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2010): its not that much different than the straight bar scene. go to hang out and have fun and you will. bless your friends...they will be your buffer. you'll be fine. :) mal
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reader, romany +, writes (11 June 2010):
 I'm not gay, but have friends that are, i've been to loads of gay clubs with them, and some clubs are easier for pick ups than others, but no one is going to come up you and suck your face off, Its not that much different than straight clubs.
Your lucky to have good friends, and I think that your nerves about tomorrow are half anxiety, due to it being the start of the real you, and half excitement for same reason.
If you dont like it out.....leave, try a different club another time,.......simplezzzzz...lesbianisn wont die out while your coming to terms with your future lifestyle. lol
Good luck bird, follow up and let us know how you get on.
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